Stephanie Caragos

Ubiquitous Living

2010-11-22T15:43:00.000+08:00

South Korea is developing a new type of city called the U-city (U stands for Ubiquitous). This type of city will have everything interconnected. For example, this would be the proposed process in the grocery business:

1. When the stocks from the suppliers arrive and are being unloaded to the grocery warehouse, a signal from each item will be sent to the grocery’s server wherein the inventory quantity for each specific product is updated (increased). This will include the update of their costs. This means this cuts off time from having to record the receiving report (or delivery receipt) manually to the grocery’s system.

2. When a customer buys the items, they only scan the items on their own cellphones as they put the items in their shopping carts. To check out the items, all they need to do is dock or have an automatically generated barcode in their cellphone scanned and in a payment machine and pay for it through credit card or cash.

3. After payment, the inventory levels of the stocks purchased will also be updated.

House owners will have dynamic houses with wallpapers or wall colors can easily be updated as their walls are already dynamic panels. All appliances are interconnected and can be managed via the internet. Through U-living, businesses are turned to customer-driven organization that executes and adapts its mission-critical business process using sense and respond infrastructure.

The plans includes having RFIDs implanted on human beings for faster medical treatment as their medical records are going to be stored in a central server. This is much like the scenario of the movie, “The Net” and it does have its share of moral issues.
Our lecturer, who showed us their U-City plans said that “All technologies should be created by the human for the human. All your technology implementations should support your business.” He discussed further about Real time enterprise – an enterprise that competes by using up-to-date information to progressively remove delays to the management and execution of its critical business processes” (Definition by Garner).

The goals in running a real-time enterprise are:

1. To act on events as they happen, not necessarily fast.
2. Reduce costs
3. Increased efficiency
4. Better service to customers
5. Reduce errors

Doing business on time and in real-time is a competitive advantage

The Criteria of the right time enterprise are as follows:
1. High availability – the ability to communicate “whenever and wherever” is the new mandate.
2. High performance – systems delivering right-time recommendations or information must be real-time performers.
3. Pristine & secure data
4. Ready and willing business users.

Below are the key components in managing enterprise and business process
1. Information
2. People
3. Equipment
4. Technology

In the afternoon, we started on-site visit to the SME Technology Center where they provide molding and prototyping services for the SMEs. The South Korean government supports strongly the SMEs as this comprises about 98% of their businesses here. Thus they have invested heavily on this sector to further create jobs and boost further the economy.

We then proceeded to KODIT to learn about their guarantee fund for SMEs. We got to understood better how the SMEs are getting loans from banks through the government’s support.

Seamaul – New Community Movement of Korea

2010-11-03T10:01:00.001+08:00

Day 2 - “We must overcome poverty.” This is what our lecturer Mr. Lee Joon Ho said to start our lecture. I was surprised to hear this since I saw how progressive South Korea is today. One thing I’ve noticed in our first two speakers is that they are very proud of South Korea’s ability to rise from the ashes, to have gone through poverty because of their civil war (and other events that took place in their history – invasions and colonization’s) and have survived. They have become one of the strong and emerging countries in Asia and they are right to feel such pride, to show themselves as an example to other countries and be able to say that do not use poverty as an excuse not to succeed.

Mr. Lee starting his lecture.

The catalyst leading to the South Korea’s progress was the strong leadership of the late President Park in the 1950’s. He started the change by implementing agrarian reform as there was a huge disparity between those who had so much land and those who merely tilled the land. During his term, there was a strong emphasis on education and thus when the farmers started earning out of the sweat of their brow, they were able to send their children to universities. Reading and writing were also taught to the older generation.

Year by year, progress started to unfold and a movement called Saemaul was started. It was a kind of movement that was not in any way implemented as a law nor were there any buildings for their offices to signify it’s being official. This kind of movement was engrained in the hearts of every South Korean.

When they started the movement, the following were emphasized for everyone to practice.

1. General thriftiness campaign – people were made aware to be even more thrift, to not waste resources and to make the most of what is there.

2. 4H Movement – the use of the Head, Hand, heart and Health.

As mentioned earlier, they gave so much attention to education (in fact their Won bills have the pictures and names of their Scholars). They were very hardworking and diligent and they were constantly reminded of their past. They worked as a team in building their nation once again (in fact, in the lecture about their culture, they don’t use the word “I” but always “We” and “Ours,” always collective, always as a team.

Much emphasis was also given to their health as they believed the total balance of one’s health shall lead to more productivity and efficiency. Their food is always considered as medicine for the body and thus they rarely take fatty foods. I guess, this is why also I barely see any obese individual here.

3. 3. Tree planting campaign – everybody, from the lowest to highest position, from young and old, helped in restoring their environment. Trees were planted in every vacant land. This is why, as we walk around or visit other places here, every landscape has trees growing in it.

4. Crusade against illiteracy – as mentioned earlier, education was key to their success. As stated by our professor, South Korea has a literacy rate of 97-98%. This is also why we have so many Korean nationals visiting our country to study as they are already learning the English language to further increase their competitiveness as a nation.

Through the Saemaul (New Community) Movement, a mental movement started. That they were to always think for their country and do what’s best for their country. They decided to export rather than import. We barely see any other brands of cars here but Hyundai and Kia. You barely see clothes that are non-Korean made in their stores.

They are very nationalistic and it makes me think and wish that we Filipinos could truly make a difference if we have the same thinking; To love our country first, to stop our colonial mentality. I remember growing up and studying Civics and Culture, we were taught that one of our traits as Filipinos was our “Colonial Mentality.” I don’t remember being told that this was a bad thing and we were not even convinced our teachers to love our country more rather than looking at branded products and thinking that those made from outside our country is better (apologies to my previous teachers, this is a matter of opinion).

The Saemaul movement had 3 Spirits that further encouraged them to continue the movement and these were:

Industry (diligence)
Self Help – they learned to be self-reliant and independent yet they also believed in;
Cooperation – they always worked as a team and believed that they can succeed more through a community effort. Their individual skills put together helped them soar higher.

They had the can-do spirit and they were very strong willed. Nothing was impossible, no job was too little nor too big, no job was too easy or too difficult; they strove to hit the mark always. The movement also emphasized in building the rural areas. Their concept is noteworthy because by building the rural areas, giving the same progress and infrastructure as that of the major cities, the people did not have to go to the cities to get work and make the cities more crowded (this was back then). Thus most of the cities and provinces here in South Korea is progressive and everyone had a fair share of the growth and progress.

Mr. Lee ended his talk by inspiring us by saying “You too can be like Korea as your countries have your own natural resources and you too can grow.”

Our second lecture for the day was about Korean Culture and Society. We watched videos of their dances and our lecturer also talked about their history.

Our “official” lectures and learning ended early and thus Alan, Evan, Glo, Jong, Elvin and I decided to hit the town to check out their commercial area. I’m lucky to have camera-trigger-happy colleagues. We were taking pictures all the time!

Ready for lakwatsa!

Marker outside our campus

At the gates of our campus

Walking toward Gondan train station

We first walked for about 10 minutes from our campus to the Gongdan train station and from there we took a train to Jungang (Commercial district). It’s amazing what sign language can do to help the communication gap. We couldn’t understand their ticketing touch screens as it was all in Korean characters and thus Evan asked one of their station guards and started pointing out our desired destination on the map.

Of course, there were again the nuances of having to ask further directions as we waited for our train and this time Elvin started asking another local for directions. The guy told us that he was going to the same place and thus told us to follow him. He eventually became Elvin’s new found friend – right Elvin? Hehe.

Jong and Elvin with Elvin's new "friend"

As soon as we got to Jungang, we walked around and visited some shops. We stopped by a local grocery to buy some things we forgot to pack (such as my moisturizer) and then when we went out of the grocery store,

Evan chanced upon a food stall and we started eating (which is btw, one of the things we have been doing since we got here). Right after that, we walked for 20 minutes in the blistering cold to get to the Emart store which is one of their most popular department store chain.

As we were already very tired from all our walking, we all took a taxi back to our campus and went to our dormitory pantry to eat our comfort food (McDonald burgers from emart :P) and of course drink a bit of Sujo (again.)

comfort food. eating at our dorm's pantry

Again, another great day in Korea and once again looking forward to what’s in store for tomorrow.

Annyong haseyo!!!

2010-11-02T13:16:00.002+08:00

Day 1 - Arrived at 5:30 A.M. at Seoul. The other Philippine delegates, Evan, Gloria, Elvin, Alan and Jong, arrived with me in our way to Korea and we were met by Mr. Jake Kim and Vivian of the Small & medium Business Training Institute (SBTI) met us at the airport. It was a pleasure to finally meet the people whose names we have read constantly in emails and formal correspondences.

lugging all our bags at the Incheon International Airport - South Korea

I have to say, Seoul’s International Airport is by far one of the best airports that I’ve seen in all my travels. Really huge, organized and everything’s working!! The people are very warm as well, unlike the weather that greeted me when I went out the airport. It was freaking cold! The first gust of wind the hit me made me decide to start wearing my thicker jacket right that instant.

With Jong and Glo

Alan and Elvin

SBTI had a bus waiting for us and the other delegates joining the training and after an hour’s trip; we arrived at Ansan City and were taken to the SBTI campus. I was very impressed with their campus that had several buildings for their administration, training and dormitories. In our invitation letter, we were told that we had very simple facilities for our dormitories – they were just being humble  they have really good dormitory facilities, much like a good hotel.

My dormitory room

View outside my window

What I love most about the campus is that it’s very “green.” Much emphasis is given to maintaining their gardens and trees (which by the way look so gorgeous at this time of the year – autumn) making it very conducive for learning and thinking.

We were given a tour around the facilities and then we had our orientation with Jake and Vivien. We had the chance to meet SBTI’s Vice-president and Chief Operations Officer who is in charge of all the training programs for the institution.

Mr. Jake Kim giving us a tour

We then had our first lecture which was very close to my profession, which was about understanding the different IT solutions for businesses and ERPs.

I thought there was a heavy metal music playing as almost everybody was head-banging – I realized, I too was doing the same. We were all too sleepy as most of us barely had sleep as we had to take very early flights.

Proof that we were so tired from our flight #1

Proof #2

Mind you though, despite the fact that we were nearly dozing off because of 2 days of travel and no sleep, we were still very active in participating in the discussion after the lecture. Now that's what you call skill! hehe

My first Korean meal was Lunch and being adventurous in learning more about other cultures (and taste), I tried everything and really enjoyed the food.

Lunch!!!

I had so much kimchi thinking I won’t have it again later that day. I then found out that It’s actually being served in most of their meals as in our welcome dinner, we had it again. I should have read more about their style of serving meals as the food was being served like appetizers and it kept on coming in in small servings. I really could not understand what I was eating (and even ate raw beef dipped in chilli sauce) but I still devoured all that was served in front of me. Before I knew it, I was already full and was already toasting soju (Korean liquor) with my colleagues!

Welcome Dinner

The day ended with much laughter and conversation (I think it was the soju ..hmmm) with our other colleagues. It’s been a long day and I truly enjoyed the first day here in Korea. So looking forward to the next day!

I Never Stop Qualifying for the Job

2010-09-01T17:44:00.000+08:00

As the company grows, the requirements for me professionally, physically and emotionally also grow. I can still remember how we started out 10 years ago, working on one project at a time as there were only just a few of us working then and serving only Cagayan de Oro clients. Now, we are working on several projects for several clients and several locations at a time. We used to have only the software and applications services but now we are working on web and SEO services. It’s amazing how something so little has grown to a company that we have now. Indeed, patience, hard work and a lot of team work is necessary to succeed in this industry.

I am never complacent though with whatever there is now as I always believe that the best of things is yet to be created in as much as the best song is yet to be written and the best work of art has to be painted or sculpted. For me, the best Philippine outsourcing company is yet to emerge. With our current team, existing partners and with our will to continuously grow and succeed, I know this can be done and this will happen. We are also now even more rigorous in our processes in hiring and retaining people. Rigorous – not ruthless. We make sure we keep on board the right people on the bus so we are always on the right path. There will be bumps and potholes along the way, this happens in any journey but I know there’s always a way to fix it and learn to make sure not hit those obstacles in the future again. With the better team that I have now, I know we can make it to our destination quicker and have fun along the way!

Before, my focus was to learn more technical things. Then my need to acquire more knowledge grew to client handling, financial management, obligations & contracts, team and staff management. This time, I have to keep up with all of these aspects all at the same time and I’m enjoying every moment of it. There are moments that I sometimes would feel like vomiting because of the stress and pressure (no, not attributed to high BP) but then again, it’s all part of the job – I have to do things I don’t like in order for me to enjoy the things that I do like and working in the IT field is indeed the latter for me.

I am a work in progress - as a professional and as a person and will continue to be a work in progress – what’s important is – there is progress. I love my job! I love my life!

My Dad Is On Facebook

2010-02-12T20:56:00.002+08:00

Dad has finally fallen to the facebook-trap. He has officially signed up for a facebook account and is active in making comments on our walls. It’s fun seeing him trying to know what his grandchildren considers as fun and what we are all doing when we want to take a break. Does this mean I should start filtering what I post on my wall? Hmmm … nah … :P

I’m looking forward to seeing him start tagging pictures, posting status shoutouts and start “liking” whatever is on our wall. Lately he’s been so much into adding more fish to his aquarium and has been so fond with his kois and goldfish. I guess his first facebook app would have to be fishville :P
Enjoy your facebook fun Pa!

Rest in Peace Sir Brix

2009-11-22T22:42:00.000+08:00

Last Saturday, I was given the opportunity to speak in front of all Sir Brix Palmes' friends and relatives to give my eulogy for him as a friend and as a student. Allow me to share my eulogy to him in this blog. I believe, most of his students share the same sentiments and fond memories of Sir Brix.

November 21, 2009 - Tablon Chapel

Back in college, I would remember this teacher going around the halls of Xavier University with his toothbrush inside his shirt pocket and his towelette dangling from his back pocket. We called him Patrick Swayze or Richard Gere because of his build and gray streaks in his hair. Sir Brix, as we fondly called him was the epitome of someone who taught by example. As a teacher, he was indeed strict, but strict enough to make us do our work right and a friend enough to let us know that he believed in us and that we could approach him whenever we had problems with our projects or concerns with AIMS (Ateneo Information Management Society), our IM organization then. He was a friend and confidant to all of us.

When Jun and I started our IT company, at the time when we weren't recognized yet in the business community, sir Brix was the one who kept on pushing us and telling us that he was so proud of us, of what we were doing and of what we were trying to attain. He never stopped believing in us. He even stood up for us when others tried to put us down. We only knew about this after several years.

Last year, we were fortunate enough that he joined our company as a consultant for our software team. For a couple of months, we were blessed to have him with us, seeing him again with his toothbrush and towelette. Yet it was at that time of the year that his illness was taking the best of him. He had to travel to Manila for his treatments. Even at that time when he was getting sicker and sicker, he still showed that he was on top of his game, that he could still do his work and the he was still a great example.

I am fortunate that as a student and as a friend, I was able to talk to him then, to say "thank you" to him for all the wonderful things he has taught us, for the values he has instilled in us as professionals and friends. I am fortunate that what I am saying to you now is just and echo of what Jun, all his students and myself has been saying to him when he was still around.

To his wife, Ma'am Vick and to his children, we thank you for sharing Sir Brix with us. He has indeed left a legacy in each and every student and friend. We love him dearly and we will continue to thank him for his teachings and good heart. We will indeed miss him but know that you will see a piece of him in each of us, his students and friends, as we try our best to continue the trail he has blazed for so many. Good bye Sir Brix. Rest in Peace.

New Look for This Blog

2009-11-20T19:12:00.002+08:00

I’ve been meaning to find time to update the look of my blog but because of the busy schedules and work priorities and spending time with my loved one have prevented me from doing so. I finally found the time to work on it and “tadaaaa!!” It’s done …. Or so I think. I might add a few apps here and there … a few more links and yes, a few more blog posts. I’ll soon find time for this. But for now, I’m relishing the thought that I have finally updated the design. I’ll look into the blog customization later on, when I get yet another time to do so.

It’s going to be a great and special night tonight, it being a Friday and I have a special birthday celebration to attend to. So I have to dash. Hope you like the new blog look.

Team Spirit and Loads of Fun Shared at Syntactics Annual Summer Camp!

2009-11-03T01:45:00.013+08:00

April 2009. This year, the team-spirit concept was added to the various events being held by Syntactics. The whole company was divided into 3 teams, each having a distinct color namely red, blue and yellow. Each color had a representative from all the main divisions from the company and these were the administrative, web, software, analysis, OJT and SEO divisions. As a rule, each activity and event will have a corresponding point and at the end of the year, the scores will be tallied and the overall champions will be announced. This new concept made this year’s company summer camp even more fun because each person was rooting and doing their best for their own team-color!

The company summer camp was held at the Mapawa Nature Park. All the teams were given cooking/meal assignments and thus Red team took care of the sumptuous dinner on the first night, blue team for the heavy breakfast in the morning and the yellow team took care of the much needed nutrition at lunch.

As soon as the convoy arrived at the campsite, everybody were eager to pitch their tents and some of the guys wanted to “rough it out” by sleeping under the stars (and beside the ant hill ….. they of course scurried down to the main campsite to join the rest of those that were encircling the bonfire after several bites).

Mini-games were played during the evening such as longest-line (with guys leaving only so little on them just to make sure that their team wins), paint me a picture and cheering! The OJTs and the newbies made a couple of presentations and were applauded by their mentors and team-mates. Once again spooky stories were shared and the many of the guys talked till the wee hours of the morning just exchanging crazy stories.
Everybody woke up early to have a full breakfast and to ready themselves for the series of activities that were to be played. The Mapawa Adventure Team made a series of team-building activities prepared to test team-work, agility, speed and thinking. Each team, having 12 members each had to accomplish the 5 following activities simultaneously:

1. Crossing the bridge with just a few slabs of wood and a few wood cuts - all team members must cross the bridge safely without touching the ground. It was hilarious to see that with just 3 meters of wood planks placed on top of wood the size of 3x6 inches, the whole blue team of 12 people was able to fit and cross the bridge! The red and yellow team used their build and agility by carrying the lighter team members over their shoulder and crossed the bridge quickly.

2. Spider Web – ropes that were woven together like a spider web were spun and all the team members must be able to fit into the little spaces in between the ropes. An additional challenge was set by adding the rule that each “window” can be used only once by one team member. With this, each team had their own strategy of making one team member cross first to receive the other members that were “wormed” into each space.

3. Humongous star – okay, yours truly really doesn’t know the real name of this activity but a circular rope of about 15-20 meters was placed on the ground and was tied on each end. All the team members were to hold a part of the rope and must weave themselves into each other without letting go of the rope to form a five-point-star. Much patience was needed for this and the team had to concentrate on the instructions of the one leading them on this activity.

4. Rubberband and can activity – all team members, except one, were blind folded. A rubber-band with a diameter of about 1 foot had several ropes tied around it. Each team member should hold on to one rope and must listen to the instruction of the leader. The goal was, with the ropes tied to the rubber-band, the blind-folded members should pull, tug and release the rope to put the rubber-band around a big can, clamp it and move it to a specific target area. The target was a distance of 20 meters from the starting line, blind folded, they must release the can by pulling again their ropes at the same time and releasing the can on the target destination. All the team members had to follow instructions right and listen to the team leaders or else, they would run out of time. The team leader had to instruct them to move forward, backward, tug their ropes, etc. and must guide them all to the goal.

5. Water in plastic cups challenge – plastic cups containing water were spread all over the side of the pool. Each member must cross one end to another and must not tip a single cup or spill any of the water. The challenge? They must be blindfolded and must listen to the voice of only one person who will guide him/her as to where to step on. This was a true test of listening to instructions, patience and lot of faith and trust on their team-mates.

6. Group-Ski – the team must cross from one point to another by skiing on wooden skis. All team members must move their feet simultaneously in order for them to move.

One last activity was then organized and all the three teams were pooled and divided into two teams. A scenario was given wherein a huge circle was laid out on the field. Both teams must be able to pour water into a bucket in the middle of the circle. What made it challenging was that each team had only a couple of long bamboo poles, ropes and only one member can get into the circle and must not touch the ground to accomplish the task. After several minutes, both teams decided to get together and pool their resources together to make an A-formed stilt wherein ropes were tied at the top of the triangle and on each bamboo pole to help the team member cross from the outer circle to the middle. All the other team members tugged and pulled the ropes to make the stilt walk to the center and the task was accomplished! It was a spectacular way of ending the team-building games as everybody united to fulfill one common goal.

While waiting for the transportation to take back everybody to civilization, members took a break by swimming in the fresh-water spring swimming hole and had fun zip-lining! Congratulations to the Red team for ranking first in this activity! Blue and yellow teams followed in the score ranking. They gave their best as well in all the activities. Thank you to Pam Salon, Lenivie Estillore, Lady Abacahin and Hernan Sahilan for making the event super fun and successful!

Check out our facebook profile to see our pictures and videos!

Google releases new snippet feature

2009-10-12T14:46:00.003+08:00

Google just added the search snippet feature to their current search algorithm. When you type in a specific keyword into google, it will give you a list of results or suggested pages. With the snippet, google will further recommend an even more detailed information that relates to your keyword by placing it under the search results main link. This will allow you to click directly to the link where you want to find the information or topic. This makes our search faster and we don't have to go through a lot of pages and sub-links just to get to the main information we want to read.

This also goes to show that content and the right use of anchor texts and hyperlinks is really important. For those who are working on Search Engine Optimization in the Philippines, take time to read and learn this. Visit the official google blog to learn more.

Syntactics and letIThelp Updates:

2009-10-01T16:42:00.004+08:00

A lot of activities and events have happened since the start of this year for our dear Syntactics family and I’m so happy to say that everybody’s been having a great learning experience as well as having a lot of fun with their fellow team-mates.

Our very first activity was our summer camp that was held last May and it was our second team-building summer camp activity. We stayed overnight at the Mapawa Nature park where everybody had a blast singing, playing games, zip-lining and everybody participated in our team building activities.

The second activity was our retreat where this time, everybody were given the chance to recollect and found solace and peace in prayers and silence. After the retreat, it was heartwarming when I heard (as I was in Manila working in our Makati office - so sad that I was not able to join everyone) about how each and everyone said thank you to the people that have touched their lives.

Just recently, we had our very first annual sportsfest at Victoria Beach wherein the Red team was announced as the very first overall sportsfest champion for the two organizations.

Yesterday, we had a mini-lecture on "good grooming," as this is part of our series of self-improvement for everybody (not that it's really needed, but any additional learning is always appreciated).

I will be writing more about our activities and experiences. I’m very happy at our direction at this point and very happy to say that everyone in the team are giving their best and are helping in making our team even better. I'm so excited with all our other upcoming activities that will help us grow more and become one of the leading Philippine outsourcing companies.

Hasta la next post!

What Happens in Boracay Stays in Boracay

2009-02-15T00:16:00.011+08:00

Yes, I was in Boracay and it was the first time that I have ever stepped foot on that island paradise! But nothing worth keeping as a secret really happened there, in fact, I'd love to tell you about how much fun I had during my stay there! I’ve heard so much about Boracay; of its beauty and splendor and of how a small island can be the breathtaking paradise and be the ultimate party place at the same time. Thanks to our partner, Simon, I was invited to go there to meet new friends and business partners, to have short meetings on the beach (where they noticed me playing with the sand with my feet as we were discussing) and a quick vacation (one that I really needed after the longest time --- and yes, all ye who think I don’t know how to have fun, I do know how to take a vacation).

What i see the moment i step out of my boracay accommodation

With my business development officer, Joan (who was thankful that she holds Simon’s campaigns), I started the journey by taking a couple of plane rides to get there. It was well worth the trip however, as everything was as wonderful as I was told it would be. We were booked at a Boracay hotel that is renowned for their great service, Nigi Nigi (I’ve heard a lot of people telling me that it’s the place to stay there and they were right!). On our first night, we were warmly welcomed by our new friends Demi, Finn, Maria, Del, Jason and Ruby and our good friends Simon and Rowena with whom we enjoyed our dinner and island cocktails as we listened to the calming sound of the waves in the background (and I continued to play with the sand with my feet. Lol)

Breakfast at Nigi Nigi with Joan Finn and Little Tyler

Of course, a Boracay trip wouldn’t be complete if you don’t get to do Boracay activities (sunset sailing with cute people (*wink wink*), walking on the beach, swimming, relaxing on the beach, henna tattoos, braids (wehehehe), cocktails, shopping, spa treatment, party, etc.) and we had three days to do all of those. There were quick meetings in between, but since the setting was too relaxing, the meetings didn’t even seem like work at all! (hmmm … therefore, I should go there for more meetings?). Every night is a party night there where bars and restaurants along the shore were bustling with music and excitement and it’s interesting to note that you get to meet a lot of people there who have stories to tell.

Sunset Sailing with Joan and James

In one of our conversations with our new friends, I got to learn also that a very interesting reef restoration project is going to take place and I am very eager to see the outcome as I would want to be one of the very first to dive into it and check it out (with much anticipation, right Finn?). It’s a pity that I never got to do a yacht trip or dive while I was there, but I am pretty darn sure that there will be another trip coming up soon so I’m preparing for that.

Most importantly though, the right company in every trip is indeed essential as they are the ones who will make the trip worth remembering. So Joan, thanks for making me laugh my head off while we were there and I end this post with a note to thank Del and Jason for their wonderful hospitality, Maria for being a wonderful island tour guide, Finn for those great conversations (and for changing the way I look at fireworks in my life) and of course Simon for inviting us there. I am looking forward to my next trip there and I do hope you get to visit me here in Cagayan de Oro soon!

Great view from one of the many boracay beach condominiums

The Irony of the Ambient Sounds of Nature

2009-01-15T23:41:00.004+08:00

After the deluge that’s hit our dear city, I had the urge to delete my “sounds of rain fall” mp3. It was that very mp3 that would lull me to sleep whenever so much has happened during the day and I still have so many things racing in my head. Not this time. After the flash floods that has hit our city due to the cold front that is passing through, the previously calming sound of rain has been a cause of sleepless nights for me recently. I’m a worrier when it comes to people that are close and dear to me. So now, when the rains start to pour, I start to text and call family and friends.

This is the first time that it’s ever happened to us here. Walking down the streets, you could sense that everybody feels the pain, the loss and the fear and the dim weather is not helping at all. I’ve noticed too that people head home immediately after the working day.

Speaking of work, we have officially declared this week as “It’s okay (to be …. ?) if you are ‘baduy’ or wearing flip flops to work week.” What I love about the professionalism of my team-mates is that they are committed and they are showing that they will do what it takes to do what they have to do. They all understand, that the world won’t stop turning and will continue moving on even with this situation (and if it does stop turning, we’re all screwed). I also find it comforting to know that our little work-family would always want to look out for the best for the others as I’ve seen them trying to work out to help those who were affected by this recent turmoil. I’m happy at what they are and at what they are making of themselves individually and as a team.

Things are getting back to normal now and back at the office, laughter is resonating again (especially after seeing fellow officemates in short pants) and I’m praying (and asking everyone else to pray as well) that everyone will recover quickly from this nightmare and that this will not happen again. If you want know about the latest statistics in the region, you can visit www.misor.info, the official province of Misamis Oriental calamity update page.

Weather is too cold now … gotta hit the sack. G’nite everyone. Plant trees … recycle .. . conserve energy …. save lives. Your children and future children deserves to live in a beautiful world.

Incorporating Branding in Web Design

2008-12-29T14:11:00.004+08:00

Brand strategy is the how, where, when, what, and to whom you plan on communicating and delivering on your brand messages. With the advent of technology and the ease access of the internet for a lot of consumers, websites are now considered as one of the known distribution channels for a company’s branding strategy.

When a business organization decides to have a website developed, much thought in its marketing and its branding approach must be given. The reason for having a website should not be because the company has to ride the technological bandwagon but it should be because the company wants to reach out to their target market more and would want to establish their branding online, one that is consistent with their current marketing strategies.

When you decide to have a website developed for your company, always remember that your website becomes your online target market’s first impression of your company, who you are and what you offer. It is important then to find a web developing company then that would understand the importance of branding and would inculcate your marketing strategies to your website and at the same time follow the standards in web development.

Sit down with your web consultants and inform them of your approach, your target market, how you want your target market to feel when they see your brand. Bear in mind, your brand is your promise to your consumers or clients. Make sure to review the following in your layout and plans for your site:

1. Are your colors, logo and theme followed in the website?
2. Are your taglines easily seen and understood by your site visitors?
3. Who’s your prospective online audience? Are they knowledgeable in surfing websites and what is the appeal you want to convey? Is it emotional or intellectual or both?
4. Who are your online competitors? How are you going to set yourself apart from their design and branding?
5. What’s your corporate approach in design? Would you want your design to be formal, fun, trendy, etc?
6. How is the navigation of you site? Is it easy to understand and consistent?

Get a web consultant and design company that can help you in the above checklist. Also, make sure that the site is quick-loading and that your message can already be seen and understood in little time in order to capture your audience and make them stay to learn more about your company, products and services.

We made it for the second year in a row!!

2008-11-06T13:30:00.004+08:00

I would like to thank the members of digitalfilipino.com for nominating and voting for our company website www.syntacticsinc.com in the 2008 digitalfilipino web awards! We're happy to announce that our site has once again bagged the national award under the corporate category for the second consecutive year.

This time, Jun, our COO, went to Manila to receive the award. Too bad I wasn't there to cheer out loud and to listen to his "thank you speech" but I'm sure he prepared one just like what I made last year. wehehehehe. Most importantly, I would like to thank our web team for always putting much pride and love in their work.

To my friends in Luzon, so sorry guys that I could not make it there. Someone had to be left to man the fort. I wanted to give Jun the due recognition in receiving the prestigious award as the company website is his "baby" project. :D

Read more about the story here.

Top 3 Favorite Scary Movies

2008-10-19T22:24:00.001+08:00

Halloween is coming up and we’re about to have a Halloween party with friends from work. It’s becoming an annual party for us now, a good reason to be in a wacky getup and get away with it. It’s the only time of the year that we can do this, so might as well make the most of it.

To get into the spirit (pun intended) of the occasion, I’ve been going through some old scary movies and I finally decided on my top 3 all time favorite horror movies and these are:

1. The Changeling – 1980 movie. It’s a bit old but you would really appreciate how the movie can still make you jumpy without having to see blood or any special effects. It’s really haunting as the “scenarios” presented were simple yet …. Possible.

2. Sixth Sense – 1999. Heart pounding and …. Scary. Nothing gory and it actually kept me at the edge of my seat. This movie introduced me to the work of M. Night Shyamalan. I’ve seen all his other movies though, but I like this the most. Two other things I learned from this movie: Bruce Willis is good looking even when he’s old (made me appreciate the “older” beauty … so now I say .. “he’s good looking in a Bruce Willis or George Clooney Kind of way” and Haley Joel Osment is a good child actor.

3. Gothika – 2003. I was literally biting my nails. It had a bit of “blood” but not as bad as those other stupid scary movies. At least this one had a plot.

Now I’m pondering as to what costume I should be wearing for our upcoming company Halloween party. If you have any ideas, let me know. But please … Don’t suggest Fiona (in ogre state) and Ursula. I’ll give you a strong thwap in the head if you start having those kinds of ideas. The two who gave me those two characters were sorry they were born in this world, met me and suggested to me those characters. Haha. Kidding :P

Gotta stop now... the neighbor's dogs are howling again. What perfect timing! *shiver*

Flip Flops Fanatic Filipina

2008-09-05T15:28:00.006+08:00

It’s FRIDAY!!! I look forward to weekends. Why? Because I call my Saturdays and Sundays as my Havianas days. Every day I wear closed shoes and heels and it’s such a wonderful feeling to go around malls or doing stuff feeling comfortable and carefree. Ever since I discovered the comfort of wearing these stylish flip flops, I never stopped looking forward to getting another pair. Style and comfort is always something we would like to give ourselves for working really hard during the week, right? Anyhoo, I just got word from the grapevine that Spruce at Limketkai Center and All Flip Flops here in Cagayan de Oro is going to release and put on the shelves the Havianas special edition and other limited designs. Here’s a quick intro as to what you dear Havaianaticos would sure want to know about:

First in line are the Havaianas Slim Chitaos.

700 years ago, the Chita floral print from India (14th century) was brought to Brazil. Inspired by its art, the Brazilians printed the Chitao design, which is the bigger version of the original Chita flower prints. The main characteristics of this design were its bright colored flowers and strong graphic outline. This print and fabric then became a reflection of the laid back Brazilian and “tropicalismo” (an avant-garde moment) in the 60s. Today, this design and print is also the inspiration for the Slim Chitao designs which is part of this new lineup.

Illusion Swirl, Havies Logo, Slim Basic Special, Logo Filete and Top Bicolor are the other limited designs that I’m sure you would be interested in as well.

I’m getting the Illusion Swirl .. with the pink straps … awwww :P So go!!! Get your new pair now … remember, supplies are limited.

P.S. To all you surfer Havianaicos, check out the Stedman Bones designed by Surfer Luke Stedman himself. This is still part of the limited edition series.

It’s About Loving What You Do

2008-07-12T01:03:00.002+08:00

I sometimes work till 2 in the morning, replying to emails, reviewing some projects and other things. In the morning, despite the fact that I barely had sleep, I still wake up to get ready for work, once again energized. People sometimes wonder how I get to do this kind of routine and my only answer is “I love what I do.”

In one of my blog posts, I have mentioned the other dreams and ambitions I had when I was younger but being able to do the things I do now, the challenges and the satisfaction of going through them, the new discoveries and knowledge that seeps into my brain everyday is just what I need.

One major factor why I love going to the office is that the people at the office are not just co-workers but friends as well. We talk about things, we have fun and we share what we know. Even if I’ve been in the IT industry for ten years (professionally), I still learn from the bright young minds at work, they always have something to share (knowledge-wise, food trip or chikka-wise) and that what makes the office buzzing and that what makes me go out of my room to just spend time with them.

It’s an honor to be in the midst of people who have the same dynamism and enthusiasm as I do. Those that joined the team recently are fast catching up with their seniors and are now zooming in on their projects showing so much passion and dedication. With them on board, I know every day is a fun day at work. That’s what keeps me going. It’s been a very long week … a long but good week so now, it’s time to rest.

Honey….over and out.

A Name to What I Have Been Doing for the Longest Time

2008-06-05T21:22:00.005+08:00

I just finished catching up with work after my one week Capacity Building Workshop with YSEI at Kuala Lumpur. It was really fun as I learned so much and met a lot of new friends and networked with the most inspiring group of young entrepreneurs. I had the most wonderful opportunity of learning more about social entrepreneurship and running a social enterprise. For years, I have been working in our company and been trying to keep on sustaining and growing in order to provide jobs for IT graduates here in Mindanao but it was only recently that I learned that the dreams and mission that my partners and I had from the very start was actually leaning towards the concept of social entrepreneurship.

By definition, Social enterprises are organizations whose mission is to bridge social opportunity into sustainable reality innovatively, effectively and efficiently. Meaning, both elements of Social and economic return is considered at all times and is the goal of the enterprise (social enterprise plan).

One of the good things about the experience was knowing that I was not alone in my quest to help others in giving them jobs and a good profession. In the workshop, there were 19 participants from 8 different Asian countries (Bangladesh, Thailand, Malaysia, Pakistan, India, Nepal, Philippines & Sri Lanka). It was inspiring to be in the midst of fellow young social entrepreneurs (I’m still young! I’m still young! – Hey, age is only a number!!!) and learned so much from them. Most importantly, It was wonderful to feel their passion and drive in making things happen for society in a positive way.

These are the projects of my new found friends and I would like to congratulate them for their endeavors and thank them for making the intense one week training worth remembering:

Ejaj Ahmad
Country: Bangladesh
Project: Bangladesh Youth Leadership Center
Summary: Trains young people in Bangladesh hoping to alleviate religious and cultural tensions through dialogue.

Tantikalayaporn Thepparat
Country: Thailand
Project: Chivalry Silk Fair Trade
Summary: Sources silk material from rural communities in Thailand and sells it to the global marketplace through ecommerce. Most of the margins from this social enterprise goes back to the communities and helps them improve their income levels. This venture ensures the fair treatment and equitable income levels for the communities.

Davis Chong
Country: Malaysia
Project: Compucycle Malaysia Sdn Bhd
Summary: Creates employment and promotes ICT literacy by training young Malaysians on how to recycle e-waste. Environmental benefits also are produced by the reduction of e-waste on landfills.

Jamil Goheer
Country: Pakistan
Project: Cultural Classics
Summary: Sources hand-made crafts from rural communities in Pakistan and sells it to the global marketplace through ecommerce. Most of the margins from this social enterprise goes back to the communities and helps them improve their income levels. This venture also helps artisans maintain their skills in their crafts.

Devan singaram
Country: Malaysia
Project: Elevyn
Summary: Connects Malaysian cottage entrepreneurs directly to socially-aware consumers by means of a web-based platform. Each sale made through the platform yields income to the entrepreneur and also a financial contribution to the social projects in their communities

Prasoon Raghuwanshi
Country: India
Project: Enabling Kirana Store Owners to Leverage ICT for Market Expansion
Summary: Provides a web-based platform that congregates many Indian kirana store owners, strengthening their negotiation and marketing approach.

Urjana Shrestha
Country: Nepal
Project: Fair-Trade Crafts from Nepal
Summary: Sources hand-made crafts from rural communities in Nepal and sells it to global marketplace through ecommerce. Most of the margins from this social enterprise goes back to the communities and helps them improve their income levels. This venture also helps artisans maintain their skills in their crafts. This venture ensures the fair treatment and equitable income levels for the communities.

Yogesh chaudhary
Country: India
Project: Jaipur Rugs Company Pvt. Ltd
Summary: Ensures the proper production of rugs without the ill-treatment of workers, particularly child labor, which is very common in the rug industry in India. The venture also ensures that the workers are fairly compensated.

Aysha Saifuddin
Country: Pakistan
Project: Kaarvan Crafts Foundation
Summary: Assists female entrepreneurs in Pakistan on the development of their marketing and business strategies to incorporate fair trade policies.

Raghvendra Singh
Country: India
Project: Krishak Mitra (Farmer's Friend)
Summary: Assists Indian farmers on the use of computers to develop decision-making and business strategies.

Stephanie Rosalind Caragos
Country: Philippines
Project: letIThelp.org
Summary: Supports underprivileged young IT graduates in the Philippines to develop skills that raises their employment chances.

Ratnayake Ratnayake
Country: Sri Lanka
Project: LiLi DairyCentre
Summary: Empowers women from Sri Lanka as an element of cohesion and stability in their families by the application of ICTs to increase income.

Patcharaporn Pansuwan
Country: Thailand
Project: Opendream Co., Ltd
Summary: This venture focuses on providing non-profits and other development organizations with web development services. It employs a unique business model that provides a subsidy for lower-paying non-profit development organizations.

Christine Lopez
Country: Philippines
Project: Philippines Mobile Telecenters (MTC)
Summary: Capacitates young Filipinos on ICT skills using mobile telecentres mounted on 3-wheeled trikes.

Srikanthan Selvaratnam
Country: Sri Lanka
Project: Rural Knowledge Center of Koslanda
Summary: Capacitates marginalized youth on ICT skills that enhances their employment opportunities

Alexander Reyes
Country: Philippines
Project: RuralLight
Summary: Intends to provide low-cost, environmentally friendly energy and related services to rural communities that cannot afford electricity from traditional grid sources.

Wanisa Ket-Ho
Country: Thailand
Project: SMART / ETC
Summary: Training disadvantaged young Thais in computer and English literacy, Advanced Emergency Care and marine conservation, enabling an increase of 3 to 7 time in their income while promoting the conservation of marine resources.

Ajay Shakya
Country: India
Project: Microfinance Jobs
Summary: This is an online brokerage to match job seekers and job opportunities in the growing Microfinance sector. In addition to providing a space for job placements, the venture also helps provide value added placements for interested microfinance institutions.

Ali Khan
Country: Pakistan
Project: Youth Engagment Services Network Pakistan
Summary: Aims to empower and support youth in rural and marginalized communities to develop a range of solutions tailored for their communities. Some of these solutions include commercial ventures led by youth to help support the income generation and other social services in those communities.

So now, I’m back in Cagayan de Oro with an even more determined will and purpose to keep letithelp.org growing. Also, I’d like to give my sincerest thanks to Janette Torral and Aileen Apolo for their show of support for the letithelp.org project.

I RSVPd Online

2008-04-19T14:25:00.005+08:00

There’s no limit as to what social networking can do. Just this afternoon, I got an invitation from facebook from dear Trisha and it had a RSVP feature. Kewl, I was able to RSVP at a click of a button. I’m going, of course, it’s a Spruce event and I always enjoy the pictures displayed at their site and at Trisha and Vanessa’s facebook accounts after every event.

Spruce by the way, is the main distributor of Havaianas in Mindanao. I first took notice of the Havaianas flip flops when a friend of mine came over to do an adventure trek to walk amidst the canopy of the Claveria rainforest (suspended hanging bridges ….. thrill of a lifetime!!!). I kept slipping with my trekking shoes but he just kept on and on and looked so comfy throughout the 45 minute climb. I was amazed that the strap never broke and I, a lady who loves to pamper her feet with quality, comfy footwear, was determined to have my own pair after that.

Guys, take a pick from these designs now so you will know what to get this coming May 4.

Natural

TrailWaveSurf

Trend

Here are the details about the upcoming event.

Name of Event: Havaianas Free Kick!

Date: Sunday, May 4, 2008

Time: 2:00 Pm – 8:00 PM

Location: Limketkai Atrium, Cagayan de Oro City

Havaianas is available in Cagayan de Oro: All Flip-Flops, Ban Sabai Spa, Gazebo Home store, Mallberry Suites and spruce. Malaybalay: Ban Sabai. Camiguin: Bahay Bakasyunan sa Camiguin Butuan: Cirrus. Iligan: Ban Sabai Iligan, Shelves & Hangers & Streetshop. Ozamis: Syr’s Botique. Dipolog: Myx Botique. Zamboanga: Hacienda de Palmeras Hotel Lobby.

Visit their site at www.spruce.ph

While Waiting For My Flight Back Home

2008-02-08T19:01:00.000+08:00

Rather than continuously staring at the clock that says that I still have one hour and fifteen minutes of waiting time left before we board the plane for our trip back home, I sit here happily tapping on my keyboard recalling the past two days events.

Last Tuesday, I once again did my last-minute-packing routine as I went home late from work printing reports to present and the agenda to take up for the meeting in Manila. At around 1 AM, I zipped my bag’s zipper and said my usual line --- “I’m all packed, I think.” I then prepared for bed and fell asleep at around 2. Here are my last two day’s activities

Wednesday

4:00 AM – Dad woke me up before my alarm clock (AKA my ever handy dandy note…. Cell-phone) could do its job as he is more paranoid at the thought of me missing my flight and of course, we just had to have breakfast together as that has always been our bonding time.

5:00 AM – Met up with AJ at the airport and checked in.

6:40 AM – Slept during the whole flight. Lol.

9:00 AM – Made it in time for the meeting. The meeting lasted for hours but it was well worth it because we were able to clarify some points for a project.

3:00 PM – LUNCH!!! LUNCH!!! LUNCH!!! And did I mention lunch? Yes, from 4:30 AM to 3:00 PM, approximately 10 hours and 30 minutes, I actually lasted without food. AJ and I were so famished that we actually finished off a whole layer of pizza and a plateful of seafood pasta.

Evening – Met up with Aileen and her sweetie (finally! I got to meet Jay!) and again, ate. Our generous hosts then took us to Serendra (first time I got to visit there) and I really enjoyed strolling through the place and then again, we had something to eat (see, our whole 10 hours of fasting was FULLY compensated with so much food!). Sister! You really wanted to get even with me for having you eat so much while you were in CDO huh? I think I gained weight in just two days in Manila. One of my highlights for that evening was when Aileen and Jay took me to Fullybooked. The inner geek in me just leaped with joy as I saw 4 stories of books, books and books (Last time I felt that excited was when I was about 11 years old and I was standing outside the doors of Toys R Us). Ahhh, the simple things that make Honey the geek happy. I just could not leave that place without buying a single book. Thanks for the very good recommendation sister! I really enjoyed the book. I finished reading it already. You were right, I finished it in one sitting :P

10:30 – Aileen and Jay brought me back to my hotel and I immediately got my notebook to proceed to the internet café right next to our hotel. I was then able to check my mails and do a little work before going back up to our room to sleep at 2:00 AM.

With Aileen and Jay (Finally I got to meet Jay!!)

Thursday

9:00 AM - Went around Makati visiting office spaces and checking them out for the possibility of renting one for one of our companies. I enjoyed the thought that there are actually several serviced-offices we can actually avail of for a quick setup. I think having serviced-offices in the business district is very convenient as businesses do need “transitional” offices to be able to operate while waiting for a bigger office.

After all the taxi rides and walking (and my feet hurting like hell ---- which by the way reminded me to get a new pair of office-boots that will go well with all of my slacks), I went back to Serendra (hihihi) to sit down and work while having coffee. Thank God for cafes and wifi, I still get to do my work even when away from the office.

Evening – Spent it with M&M (Mits and Monti – hahaha). We had dinner, which was their joint-birthday celebration and then hanged out at blue wave listening to Jimmy Bondoc and Top (previously Freestyle). I had a great time with them as we shared non-online moments together. You see, we only see each other online and I’m just glad that I get the opportunity once in a while to meet up with good friends. (Wah! I forgot to have a picture taken with Mits and Monti!!!! Next time ...next time ... haha)

Now I’m checking on the wall clock again. Darn, 45 minutes more before boarding. I don’t want to bore you out with every detail and observation I have here at the airport – of the guy asleep with his mouth open, or the girl who has been texting ever since I sat in this area, of two ladies in front of me yapping, of an old lady who’s staring at the picture of Sam Milby in a magazine while another old lady (her companion), is reading an article about … liposuction. No, I will not bore you out with those details so I should end this blog now.

There. Two uber busy and tiring days that ended with great time with great friends! Aileen and Jay, Mits and Monti, thanks so much for the time. I know how you guys can be busy with work and I really appreciate it that you took time off to be with me. So, when are you coming over to Cagayan de Oro?

My Young Paduan

2008-02-02T01:18:00.001+08:00

Ahhhh.. my musings at 1 AM. My friend Jun called me this evening to read his horoscope saying that a close friend and business partner of his will get married to someone older and wealthier. He was saying that it could possibly be one of my EX-Crushes who I meet with once in a while. Hahaha! Oh my goodness, will my “January Syndrome” blog post joke of getting married on the 8th of August 2008 come true? GASP!

And since we are at the topic of marriage, here’s one more thing; my mom actually has friends who have single sons who are very eligible to get married and they find it absolutely amusing to talk about pairing me up with them. She told me that she just AGAIN talked to another friend who chided that I should meet her son and mom also entertained the idea! I told mom, “Mom! For crying out loud! That only happens in the medieval times! And my life is not portrayed in a telenovela or a Koreanovela for that matter!” She just shrugged her shoulder and laughed and dad did not even back me up! Why… arghhh!!!

When the thought of me leaving the house actually starts sinking in on them, they start feeling melancholic and starts displaying the symptoms of the empty-nest syndrome. Hey, after all, I am officially the only child at this point (since two of my older siblings are married and Leigh is in Cebu). See, these are the ranting and ravings of a single, professional Filipina woman still living at home with her parents. You’ll get to read more about these in my even more personal blog. Haha.

On a lighter note, since I’m talking about family. My older sister drops off her youngest daughter, Carmi (one year and six months) at my office every day now as she, my Ate, has to do her work for the next couple of weeks. I have my own room at the office so it’s perfectly fine. I really don’t mind too since Carmi is such a perfect angel. It’s always wonderful to have her around. When other companies have their “company pets,” we consider Carmi as our “company mascot.” Her smile can really melt our hearts and she helps cheer up the mood. She once did this thing of following me around the production area as I was looking over the shoulder of one of the developers while I had my hands on my waist. When I looked down, I saw Carmi doing exactly the same thing. Ahhh… My second minime, imagine that.

I should start training her about how to go about with work this early. I should make her …. My Young Paduan. She did this really cute thing when she saw a broom on the floor and knew what it was for and it was such a cute moment that I was so lucky to have my camera with me that time. This is the proof that Carmi is going to grow up to be a responsible person and that she will be just like her tita Honey. Hahaha:

P.S. This morning, my three little nieces Kitkat (minime #1), Nina and Kara woke me up. It was so sweet of kitkat to ask me if I still had a headache and she started massaging my forehead and the other little one followed suite by massaging my hand. Then I got to have breakfast with them. What a great way to start the day!

It's never too late to post this

2008-02-01T09:25:00.001+08:00

Egad! It’s already February and I should be writing about my “possible fateful Valentine’s day” and I’m still trying to catch up with my last year’s posts. So much for writer’s block. So, late October last year our company had our first “Syntactics, Inc. Halloween Party.” I think it’s going to be an annual event as everybody had a great time dressing up as ghouls, goblins and … ahem, I as a pirate. What? You thought Elizabeth Swann was the ultimate gorgeous -pirate? Wait till you see my pirate-pics (aye, shiver-mi-timbers mateys! What confidence! I should be more careful in writing stuff about how I see myself lest I want to “walk the plank”).

My being the “guardian of the door” was pretty effective as I was able to tell those coming in “no costume – no entry” with my stern-yet-sweet (haha) pirate face while I was holding my plastic buccaneer sword. Oh yeah, they were so scared of that sword. The only thing I lacked with that costume was a parrot perched on my shoulder. Hmm… I should have gotten my friend’s parrot for that night or at least a week before that so I would have had enough time to train it on how to say “Squawk! No costume – no entry – Squawk!” :P

We all had a blast as we found it an opportune time to be whacky and wild and not think of data flow diagrams, web developing and web designing, and Philippine based accounting systems. I could fill this blog post up with other technical jargons but I’ll be kind (and rewind?) and just show you pictures instead:

January Syndrome

2008-01-17T18:54:00.000+08:00

I just went through the last quarter storm (as I would like to call it) last year at work. Making reports and end of the year evaluations. Just when I was over it, Im now facing the January Syndrome (again, as I would like to call it) ... following up on reports, implementing new guidelines and preparing the plans for the next quarters of the year. I'm enjoying it though, gives me something to look forward to the next day knowing I have things to do (talk about being workaholic eh?).

Anyhoo, I just thought of making a quick post here and thought of greeting you all a happy new year! Im getting married na pala on August 8, 2008. The date is set, the flowers, coordinators, etc is ready ... wala pa lang groom. hahahaha .... :D

There ... a good laugh should make my first post for the year for this blog a good start.

I'm joining the Mindanao Bloggers Summit

2007-10-13T22:24:00.001+08:00

Okay .. here's my post for the Mindanao Bloggers Summit that's happening in Davao City.

This is exciting. This is the first time that Mindanao Bloggers will converge into one venue and get to actually meet the writers of their favorite blogs.

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Boardroom Walk-ins

2007-09-28T21:23:00.000+08:00

The boardroom in our office is within the same room as my private office here. It so happened, I had another door installed for the boardroom side for our plans of putting a division later on and adding a separate air-conditioning unit for that part of the room (we recently moved in this year). The boardroom door is also right next to the main door of our office, so visitors who came in would always mistake the boardroom door as the exit and people always make the mistake of walking back to my room much to their surprise (and mine too ..... not good to wear white, sip coffee and be jolted by a “surprise” walk-in .. tsk tsk). Anyway, I’m hoping that this afternoon’s walk-in-to-the-boardroom-by-accident incident will be the last time since, we have finally... finally placed signs for each room or door.

Tadaaaang!

We have a new office neighbour too! Occupying the once-vacant-space after my own room is the clinic of a group of Cagayan de Oro’s finest Dermatologists. They’re all done with their renovation and the space looks pretty dandy now. Ah, the thought of having well known CDO dermatologists right within the building. Stressful day? Or worried about “age-lines” on the face? Out the Syntactics’ door, into the clinic! Up up and away! Hehe....

Anyway, I’m still in the office trying to finish some work for the week. Just thought of making a quick break and a quick blog post. Vanity of all vanities ... if I keep on staying in the office till 9 or 10 every night, I think I will be going to that clinic across sooner than I thought.

Mortgage Outsourcing

2007-09-25T12:58:00.000+08:00

Outsourcing has become a trend in the IT industry as more and more companies are cutting down costs in creating their own IT division, hiring and training people, making sure that these people are doing their jobs and are always updated in terms of knowledge in the tools and language they use. With the fast pace of turnover in technology and in staffing, businesses now find it imperative and practical to outsource portions of their company’s operations to other companies who are more knowledgeable and thorough in a particular field.

When it comes to outsourcing, each company has their own forte as well. In our case, we are into web applications and software. For some it’s mobile applications and for others game developing, yet again for others accounting and back room operations. Much like a doctor, IT professionals and companies have their own “specialties.”

Recently I just learned something about Mortgage Outsourcing. Infinit-O is becoming the leader in Mortgage Outsourcing here in the Philippines. As they say, their formula is simple: “provide high quality services at the right price. It may sound simplistic and straightforward, but these are exactly what mortgage industry players need to retain their edge and remain competitive in a tumultuous market”

This is good, more specialized outsourcing is much needed for companies all around the world and I’m happy to know that a company, I personally know, is one of the companies that provide such a straightforward service.

September Updates

2007-09-25T12:01:00.000+08:00

Oh to the depths of the caverns of Hades I have descended. That has been my feeling for the past weeks. Frustrated and depressed. It’s when I feel everything is going against me, I am in a one way street but the only thing is I am the only one going against the flow. So, just what my good friend “A” would do (and like what I always do), I drown myself with .... work. That has always been the best solution for me to forget things. My emotions for the past weeks have been tumultuous and some of the people who I thought would respond well in terms of support reacted differently. It’s funny how you can peg a person to be strong and realize that they crumble like a house of cards when they are faced with life’s realities. Age is never a factor when it comes to these things; it is a man’s character that matters most. It was never expected in the first place that a problem will be solved by sharing it, it’s only to air out and make things lighter. That’s what friends are for. Much like a Swedish proverb, it says “Shared joy is double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.”

To make matters worse, a friend and I have fallen victim to someone who used my name to gain leverage and I was blamed for such a circumstance. And now, a punctured tire. What are the odds? Now I know the feeling of being persecuted. But, it’s okay, that’s another way of finding out who my true friends are. As they say, “For true friends who believe, no explanation is necessary; for others, none will suffice.” It’s just a pity but hey, we do have to move on and let time heal wounds.

Now, we can’t have a blog post that is all grim right? On a lighter note, a good friend, Baba, is back in town and we just had dinner last Thursday. As a “pasalubong,” She brought along this really classy notebook for poets where I can write down my musings and poems (uh-oh, back to calligraphy practice for this lady). Just in time Ba, I just used the last leaf of my old poem notebook late last year. It’s going to take some time for me to fill this up, but eventually, I will and I’ll let you read it too. I had a great time catching up with her over dinner and desert. Sometimes, distance is good for some friends, you have more to talk and muse over after some time. I’m just glad nothing has changed. Well, a bit (I did, diba Ba? Haha), but all good.

Aileen is the one who is in the states right now and has been eating In-N-Out burgers for me. Haha, I told her that I will live life vicariously through her as I am so caught up with work lately! She even has a picture of the burger she got for me in her blog, an apple a day. Was it just A burger or I think she mentioned that she ate at in-N-out three times for me! She even sent me a quick emails saying “I just had In-N-Out burger for our midnight snack.” Gawd! Now I don’t want to be blamed for the increase of all the calories and cholesterol girl!

Happy birthday again Noems! You said I was the first one to greet you for your birthday, happy na unta ko but, errrr... I really was not able to catch up with you girls at the restaurant for lunch as my talk ended at around 1:30! So sorry ... really, I am.

Now tita Zoia, my so called “hotty” friend in a Freddy K. Shirt, when are you dropping by my office again? Next pizza is on me!

Make Your Own Havaianas

2007-09-16T14:18:00.000+08:00

Matte or metallic? Pastel or bright? Simple or sparkly? Ahhhh! These were written in the “Make Your Own Havaianas” invitation and these were the exact same questions running in my head yesterday at the Limketkai Atrium, where people, like me, rushed to get their hands on their very own pair of customized Havaianas. I almost missed it as I was so loaded with work the entire week! But ahhh, the idea of having your own customized flip flops was just too good to miss. I sent Trisha and Vanessa Tamparong, the two dazzling entrepreneurs of Spruce (Who never seem to run out of brilliant ideas) an SMS telling them that I was on my way, making my way through traffic and that I did not want to miss out on getting my own pair! And.... I got there right before Trisha could send me her reply. How’s that for driving?

The choices were endless and I had so much fun going all through those colors. I was happy that my friend Zoia was there to help me decide (when presented with way too many choices, I begin to have second thoughts ... hmm... is this why I can’t seem to ...... naaaaaaaaah). Even if there were so many people there, everything was in order. There was an organized process to follow from picking your colors, to assembly, to payment and there were assistants to help us out too. After picking my choice of colors, Audrey, the Havaianas consultant (is that the right term? I think that’s what she did ... help me all throughout the process) assigned to me, took me to their workbench and assembled my pair. I had a choice too of putting pins and other designs (which were all cute, by the way), but I opted to have mine simple but elegant. This is the first in Mindanao too, this kind of event. For those who happen to read this blog and the event is over, you can visit the Spruce shop at the Limketkai Mall and get your pair of Havainas there too.

So, now I have my own pair of customized Havaianas. Thanks Trisha and Vanessa for inviting me!

Zoia choosing her design

With Audrey and Zoia after I got my pair

At the workbench where Havaianas lovers eagerly waited for their pair

My New Pair

Oh, speaking of right process and getting the right assistance, I’d like to invite you to Join the Internet and Mobile Marketing Association of the Philippines. Being in an organization of people who know their stuff is always a good idea ;)

Fearing That The Fairy Tale Will End

2007-07-21T13:21:00.000+08:00

For the past couple of months, the topic of “long distance relationships” has been a hot topic for my good friends and I (only friends? Hmmm….). Anyway, here’s the thing. Some of those that I have been talking with are absolutely contented and happy with their current relationships (I was too with mine… but then again, as we say, some good things never last …that’s another story ... another blog … if I have courage enough to write about it). There is this very deep level of intimacy that you reach in a LDR (long distance relationship) because exchange of thoughts, words and feelings expressed in phrases are constant and most often more sincere as the level of conversation grows. This is because the relationship is based, above anything else, on trust.

But some are so scared of moving on to the next step, which is actually meeting up and being together even for a little time. The general idea I got from them is mostly the fear of being in an awkward situation. I mean, you tell that person very intimate details about yourself, your thoughts, fears and dreams. You know, things you don’t usually tell a person you just met face to face? But this situation can easily be surpassed if both are really sure about their feelings for each other or at least willing to take the risk.

Risk, now that’s another thing. Many don’t want the fairy tale to end (or come true?). You know, everything is going so well with the LDR, it’s perfect, you finally found the person who is everything you want a partner to be but many “what if” questions keep popping in your head. Here are the questions that are usually asked:

What if he does not like me? Will this mean our relationship will end?
What if I don’t like him?
What if I’m not what he expected me to be?
What if he’s actually not the sweet sensitive guy he is online?
What if he’s not as funny and smart as he is online?
What if …. We’re only good at talking online and over the phone but when we’re actually together, there’s nothing to talk about?
What if … I was just an idea to him, just someone to keep him company but he actually does not want to continue with a real relationship?
What if … I don’t really love him after all? Or he does not really love me after all?
What if …. He/she’s actually THE ONE and it would mean that I would have to be more serious about the relationship and be more committed to it (and perhaps even get married).
What if she discovers that all my pictures in friendster were edited and I just erased the acne on my face using the “heal” tool in photoshop?
What if HE discovers that my boobs aren’t actually that big that I just used the “warp” tool in my graphic editing software?
What if he’s got BO (body odor)?

Okay, so I was kidding with the last three what if’s. But a lot of insecurities play when the moment of “truth” is about to happen (even if both parties admit that they are never insecure about who they are or anything about themselves, yeah right). And usually, at this stage, the LDR starts breaking apart. Usually, one party would then try to find a way to end the LDR before it can actually become a real and actual relationship (find something to fight about, stop answering messages or disappear into the abyss).

Well, if you do make the next move in this so called LDR, I salute you as so many back-out even before finding out what could happen (scared stupid). Some would start saying, “well, this relationship would never work because we are just too far apart.” I would always argue with that line, because even when in distance, when you really love that someone, aren’t you already there?

So, why don’t you make the next step? Only two things can happen, either the fairy tale will end, or you both will live happily ever after (and you don’t even have to kiss a frog!). Just take the next step, move on and get it over with. It’s better to know that you tried than be haunted with this last ‘what if’ …. “What if, he/she was really the missing piece in my life?”

Boomerang Awards

2007-07-09T20:45:00.000+08:00

The internet and mobile technology is fast emerging as the new “marketing tool” for companies and brands. “Real Estate” on web pages is something that a lot of our clients are very particular about. When we say “real estate” on the website, it actually means using the “prime” locations in your page for attracting your customers or site visitors or using these spaces for advertising. With this in mind, we make sure that we don’t waste “space,” when we design and develop pages and make sure that every space is used to product branding and for marketing.

Online and mobile marketing is not just a trend that will go away soon. This time, marketing experts have actually seen the potential for this powerful tool. In fact, a friend forwarded to me the link for the first internet and mobile marketing awards. On the site it says that the Boomerang awards is “the first and only awards that recognizes the role of internet and mobile platform in building the business of brands, service and companies in the Philippines.”

Here’s a chance for those people who come up with the most creative ways of doing online marketing in promoting their companies and brands. If you know of anyone worthy of this award, Submit an entry to the Boomerang Awards: the 1^st Internet and Mobile Marketing Awards.

geek test

2007-07-02T23:57:00.000+08:00

Eeek.... i took the geek test and this is my result

52% Geek
Is this good or bad? haha

And then I took the "How Addicted to Coffee Are You?" test and this is my result!

I am 73% Addicted to Coffee

Whaaaat??? hahaha... as if na shock pa. Hahaha

Aileen kasi eh... you made me visit this quiz site... tsk...

Syntactics Partners with Leading Business Applications Distributor

2007-06-30T22:01:00.000+08:00

June 21, 2007 marked officially our company’s linkage with Fasttrack Philippines, SAP’s largest distributor of the SAP Business 1 application. Through the years, Fasttrack has successfully implemented the SAP Business 1 application in numerous growing and established businesses in the Philippines. With our company’s current knowledge in implementation and business applications development, Fasttrack saw an opportunity in further distributing the SAP B1 product in Northern Mindanao and be able to immediately provide support to clients through a linkage with Syntactics.

We were happy that Joseph and Gay were here with us to give us further knowledge with regards to this product and of course, we enjoyed hanging out with them too. Gay, I don’t know if you are reading this, I still think the coffee shop barista added way too much of that yummy ingredient into my coffee. But who cares? Haha.

See you in a couple of weeks!

I'm back baby....

2007-06-12T19:52:00.000+08:00

I know, I know…. I’ve been away for some time. Before I continue this blog, let me give you my reasons for being “away.”

I’ve been sick. I know I’ve always been a nutcase, but this time, seriously, I had high fever and tummy ache which lasted for days. I could not eat solid food for three days and had chills every night. Who’s a doctor here? What’s the diagnosis? I’ve been eating way too much "lugaw" that I think my eyes are even smaller now as every time I had to eat I would scream “lugaw na saaaad!?” Anyway, on the third day (I didn’t rise from the dead), I started feeling better and so I started going back to work again. Hmf…. As if I stopped working, I still had internet connection at home so I still worked while at home. For my fellow workaholics, we all know how we tend to get weaker if we don’t work, right?
I was in Cebu. I had to go to Cebu for work and then, of course visit Leigh. I was so happy to see her and I was able to spend time with her
Work …. Work … work….. reports due, people to meet, places to go.

Anyway, let me talk about my trip going to Cebu. I was all alone. So, out of boredom, I called a friend and started yapping on the Phone. I was outside feeling the wind in my hair and smelling the scent of the ocean when I told my friend “Hey, I’ve been out here for some time and not a single guy ever approached me to talk to me” and lo and behold someone did approach me ….. ano sabi? “Ma’am, ticket ma’am.” Ticket inspector pala. Hehe..shy. Then after that, a drunk approached me to start talking about the miseries of his life… so I had to stand up quickly to cross to the other side of the boat to get away from him. Hehe. Lesson? Be careful what you wish for, you might get it. Haha.

Just this weekend, I’ve been on a couple of roadtrips with the family. I had a great time with them. I think, that’s what I really needed, a good time with loved ones. I feel much better now.

I will update this blog soon. Meantime, I have to stop here. Good to be back.

“I studied Plato to wash plato”

2007-05-24T23:37:00.000+08:00

“I studied Plato to wash *plato.” Noemi and I talked last night and this was our conclusion. Good thing she saw me online at 1:00 AM so we were able to catch up on things. Just like the rest of the barkada, she has her hands full with work as well.

We had a discussion about my other blog post, Transcending to the Metaphysical and she shared her insights on her studies in Philosophy (She’s a Philo major). Anyway, she was mentioning about Plato’s time and setting as to why Plato profusely pushed his thoughts on transcending love and other issues related to it. (No Noems, I’m not mentioning it here for crying it loud … for everything else, there’s mastercard). Anyway, Noems and I usually discuss about these things and then get to relate Philosophy and Psychology in our line of work (you would really appreciate this subject matter if you put it into business really).

Let me just share what I learned from her.

I mentioned to her that one of my reasons for the blog was to emphasize that love, even if the person is physically not present, is possible. Wherein, my understanding of transcendental is not having any physical fixation; that is if it is truly love, it is able to let a person hold steadfast even in death.

But then, Noemi responded with “our memory of a person is often our strongest link to the past, our weapon to be able to ‘hold steadfast,’ as you say. But for this to happen, actual memories must be made first, if that love is not actualized, it is a mere longing and you put your life on hold for an illusion."

Muy bien (very good) … she knew I was moving on to the direction of talking about transcendental love for love unrequited and so she continues with “Unrequited love can only be transcended by moving on with your life. The delicate balance between having tried and failed and being a stalker.” Ayan…. That’s another topic I’d like to discuss also in the future….stalking. hahaha!

Anyway, our chat ended with talking about the importance of Philosophy and I thanked her for the insights and for making me laugh my head off at 2 in the morning (I just can’t write it here…. Wholesome to na blog eh) and she said “4 years of dead pilosopos messing with my head, and all I get for that is having a good conversation piece and being a smart ass” and as we were winding down with our chat she then asked me “oh and if you know of anybody who would want to work as house help, do let me know as I have been stuck balancing work and household work like cleaning the house and washing plates” and so, couldn’t help it but say “ayan …. Nag study ng 4 years sa philo, to study Plato to wash *plato.”

So there … we did not only discuss philosophy of love but discussed as well which dishwashing liquid is better in transcending … joy or dazz? Thanks for the inputs Noems. Ill prepare the blog we’re supposed to co-write soon (as soon as I’m not so busy anymore).

* Plato is visayan term for dish

Emerging Blogs

2007-05-16T21:51:00.000+08:00

Janette asked me to list down at least 10 blogs I visit and I think that should belong to the top 10 emerging influential blogs for 2007. Here’s my list. Visit them and have fun.

Pinoy Insights and Travel

My Cebu Photo Blog (Cebuano gud!)
Culture Shiok
Lakwatsera Ako (This is my dream, travel and share my experiences)

Fun Blogs, Opinions and Ka-Kikayan
Shouting my whispers to the universe (Love this blog, I visit it almost everyday. The author, midnight rainbow, has this writing style that keeps on making me come back and visit often)
An Apple a Day (an apple a day nga, I don’t let a day pass without visiting this site)

Gaming

Granado Espada (I'm not really a gamer, just like how some people can articulate their interests)

On IT, Blogging and SEO
esofthub's web finds
Blog About Your Blog

Politics
Article Discovery Politics

Mystical and Metaphysical

Fortune Reading

Rant and Complain When You’ve Done Your Share

2007-05-08T00:47:00.000+08:00

Ahhhh…. Election time again. Of course, political issues would be discussed and people would be comparing which candidates are better and would also highly criticize some. That’s fine. We are all entitled to our opinions. You can complain about how things are run, that’s why it’s called freedom of speech. But don’t complain if you didn’t do anything in helping our country. Usually, we are too passive by just sitting down and wishing what government can do for us. Tama ba yan? “Think not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country.” Though, this was said by a US past president, this should be our train of thought as well in this upcoming election.

I happen to visit the onevoice website and saw how noble their intentions are. This is good. We need to help out here. You want a better country? Be a better citizen. Help out. Sign-up for VforCE: 1 million Volunteers for Clean Elections.

During Sunday’s homily, a letter from our archbishop was read and it said that we must vote for the candidate that has Conscience, Competence and Commitment. (I’m not so sure if I got the translation right as the letter was in the “deep” Visayan dialect). But I say go, vote for the candidate that has those 3 Cs. And remember, if you did not vote and if you did not help out, don’t complain.

Local and National Candidates

2007-05-04T14:16:00.000+08:00

Fellow Kagay-anons!! Who are you voting for this May 2007 elections? Check out a complete list of all the national and local candidates at our online news portal www.kagay-an.com.

On Mother's Day

2007-04-30T21:35:00.000+08:00

Seeing my mom smile is something that I would like to see all the time. I would remember coming home from school (early elementary years) and pass by some of the weeds and bushes and pick out a handful of wild babies breath and arrange it with our neighbor’s daisies and present it to her (yes, even at that early age she has instilled in me the art of flower arrangement). She would then show me this most sincere and beautiful smile that would make me want to get flowers for her almost everyday. Of course, our neighbor complained about it so I had to find other “sources.” This was my way of thanking my mom for those times she would stay in the kitchen to cook my favorite meals (ahhh… kaya pala) or the times that she would patiently tutor me for my math, English and history quizzes or the times she would repeatedly make me practice my lines for my declamation piece over and over again just so I can recite it the right way.

I think, the older I got, the more I have complicated my outlook at what my mom wants in terms of surprise presents as a token of thoughtfulness because for the past years I have spent way too much time looking for the perfect present …... I can just hear her voice ringing in my head “nah baduy, nah too tall, nah too short, nah too big, nah it’s not an antique.” I always end up buying something simple (cheapskate?) but elegant and in the end, I see her smile that wonderful smile I always look forward to see.

Anyway, mother’s day is fast approaching. Express your gratitude to your moms by sending them a special gift. Remember, by special, it does not necessarily mean it has to be an item having the three Cs but something given with much love and thoughtfulness.

My supposed speech…

2007-04-27T22:15:00.000+08:00

Before anything else, I'd like to thank Aileen Apolo for receiving our company's award in my behalf. I was ecstatic when I was told that our company won in the Digital Filipino Web Awards under the corporate and professional category. Much to my dismay, I was not able to get a flight going to Manila and so I had to ask Aileen the huge favor of receiving it for us.

I also asked her to choose from any of the "short" speeches I have prepared in accepting the award.

Speech Choice #1

"I am happy to receive the best actress award for Stephanie today, she may not have gotten the tony awards, but this Oscar will sit well on her shelf"

Speech Choice #2

"In behalf of my good friend Stephanie, who is in Antarctica right now, filming tomb raider 3, in place of Angelina of course as she's sexier than her.... thank you for this award ... I know she well deserves this golden globe award"

Speech Choice #3

"Wow... I knew she'd get this. I mean, imagine, filming the movie without a stunt double? she jumped off the bridge, did a fantastic summersault, split and 100 cartwheels in 30 seconds. To all those who supported and voted her, thank you"

Aileen accepting the award for us.

Seriously though, to be nominated and to remain in the list of finalists and be counted as among one of the chosen corporate/professional sites was already an awe-inspiring and uplifting feeling for us. But to actually get this award gives each and every team-member in our company so much to thank for, to know that each of their contribution in designing and working on the website, in showing the dynamism of the company actually has given impact to the site visitors. Thank you very much!

For those who voted for our site, thank you!!!

Click here to know more about the Digital Filipino Web Awards.

Vampire = Systems Analyst

2007-04-21T13:11:00.000+08:00

Ping, this is for you. I miss you duy. Where have you been? Utterly busy? You were actually one of the very few who appreciated the vampires that Anne Rice has woven into this world or is it, you are actually the only person from this city that I know who can relate to these beings and who actually got the gist about the art and passion of these creatures?

The idea of being a vampire at first was ghastly especially with the thought that victims unwillingly had their life literally sucked out from them. Guillermo del Toro said “There are two levels of vampirism: one is the regular vampire, which is just like it has always been; and then there's the super vampires, which are a new breed we've created.” I would like to further divide into two the latter breed of vampires. First is the “Buffy The Vampire Slayer” Kind (sorry, I really think they are uber ugly when they transform to their vampire state) and then, there’s Anne Rice Vampires.

Vampire Armand said to Louie about the newer and weaker vampires “They had forgotten the first lesson, that we are to be powerful, beautiful, and without regret.” After reading the entire vampire chronicles I can’t help but wonder at how amazing these creatures are. Here’s what I appreciate about them:

Undoubtedly great sense of style – Lestat, Louie, Marius and all the other “older” vampires all had class and a great taste in the finer things in life. They wore kick-ass garb and lived in luxury. You see, you can always be rich, but you have got to be a “classic” rich to actually live like the vampires. Obviously, this is because of the fact that they have been living for so long that they have come to hone their abilities in picking out the best in everything and not just buy anything that a novo-rich would probably pick out just because they had the money.
They had the most wonderful inclination to the arts. In fact, in the chronicles, it was mentioned that they were painters and musicians. They owned most of the opera houses and other theaters in France and other places in Europe and America. They owned galleries and were great contributors to museums, etc.
They were intelligent – need I say more?
They were well travelled – They had all the time (obviously) and money to go to every part of the world.
They were linguists
They were always particular in picking out their partners and passionate with their relationships.
They were nocturnal beings.
They had great sex appeal.

With the above reasons for being an Anne Rice Vampire, wouldn’t you want to be regarded as one? The downside would be, you would outlive your friends and can’t walk during the day (unless you have Akasha’s blood). Do you know that systems analysts actually have the same description as the above mentioned points? Hahaha (Analysts are Insomniacs, workaholics, designers, artists, listen to good music while working and linguists too)….so I would probably qualify as a vampire (confident!) and I wouldn’t mind being called one either. Just don’t let me drink blood.

Software developer….web designer…analyst…. Electrician … and now aircon technician.

2007-04-04T19:24:00.000+08:00

Hay nako… So, the air conditioner in my office started dripping again so we had to pull out the aircon and check out if the “pipes” were stuck or something. After the aircon was again inserted back to its “hole” we noticed that the “compressor” was not working well and that the air coming out of the equipment was rather warm.

I was sure that we bought a brand new air-conditioning unit and not a heater. So, we removed it AGAIN from its “place” and saw that one of the red wires was unplugged from God knows where it should be. And so, we called the service center to send someone over nalang to repair it and they replied with “oh, sorry, you would have to wait within next week as all our technicians are out for the holidays and we are fully booked already for early next week.” Duh? Does that mean I have to wear my business attire and suffer the heat? And so…. We removed the aircon AGAIN from it’s place and started analyzing where the red wire should be plugged in. We attempted several times until I saw the electrical diagram of the unit. So, ayan. Aircon fixed.

Honey = aircon technician. Bow

My dear graduates.....ahem

2007-04-03T22:41:00.000+08:00

Last Friday, I was asked to be the speaker for the commencement exercises for one the vocational schools in Iligan City. There were about 1,200 graduates, all from computer-related courses. At first, I thought I was just “one” of the speakers and I was really surprised when I got to the location, I saw my name written on the backdrop of the stage as THE commencement speaker. *Gulp*

It was not easy to outline my accountability and stewardship for the gift of life and profession given to me, all the more speak about it to 1,200 graduates who are all feeling hyped- up and nervous knowing that in just a matter of one day, some of them will shift from being students to being part of the statistics of the unemployed….. and the race begins.

I do remember how I felt on graduation day. I was happy that I was done with college and I can start with the next step in life. Yet, I was scared that I might not get to where I want to be or not do the things I want to do. What if I had too high expectations of things to come? What if my future work is something i do not love? What if Hugh Jackman proposes for marriage to me and I'd be too busy to say yes? (hehe.... I just had to put that there) ...I held on to faith and did what I can. Whew, so far…so good.

I did my best to give them the courage to persevere and not feel beaten if they are up against those who have graduated from bigger and more expensive universities because I saw in them what I did not see from the most of the graduates of the latter universities. I saw hope and perseverance.

As the ceremonies were being conducted, I was able to chat with the school president and his wife (as usual, talkative honey can’t stop) and they told me of the accomplishments of their graduates. It was awe-inspiring to take note that a lot of them were actually working students and scholars and that despite of all their other obligations in life, they were still able to participate in national competitions and top these competitions as well.

I have to say, I was impressed and I’d like to see this school grow further as they are indeed giving opportunities for others to get a good education. I’d like to see more of that. Thank God for people like them.

AND THEN, THERE WERE THREE

2007-04-01T00:12:00.000+08:00

First it was Noemi a few years ago, today, Ting. I once had a dream that seemed so real that the sequence for our barkada for this step in life would be as follows: Noemi, Me, Ting, Binky and Zoia. Hmmmm….. since the sequence was broken with me, then it might not have been a vision but just a typical nightmare….for me that is.

Today was a meaningful day for one of my high school barkada, Christine. It seems that all of us in the group were given specific tasks. Noemi, of course was in charge of the photography, care of one of Cagayan de Oro’s premier photographer, Rene of renodigitaldesign.com. I was tasked to be the commentator and multimedia person, Zoia was the pseudo-maid of honor (hehehe…) and Binky, well, since she started her public speaking career just last week as a graduation commencement speaker for our alma mater, she was one of the emcees during the reception. (hahaha, I just had to say it Binks).

Ahhhhh, weddings. I have finally gotten to the age wherein almost everybody I know are getting married or panicking about it. A few years from now, I’m sure I’ll be invited to a lot of baby showers, baptisms, etc. and then, I’d be invited to debuts and *gasp*, be a ninang for weddings. Ahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!! *honey, in panic mode, hyperventilating*

Okay…enough, I’m tired. *yawn* I’m never wearing my stiletto shoes on events such as these, especially when the one getting married is a good friend coz darn it, I can barely feel my feet now. If only flip flops or Crocs can go well with semi-formal or formal dresses, I’d be wearing them always. Sniff… poor Feet. So, off to bed now. Congratulations Giovannie and Best wishes Ting!

Honey, over and zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz……………

Get a free copy of Blog This: How Blogs Empower Every Internet User

2007-03-30T00:33:00.000+08:00

Woohoo! I’m going to Get a free copy of Blog This: How Blogs Empower Every Internet User!!! That’s right...I’m getting a FREE copy of this e-book since I’m a DIgitalFilipino Member. Wehehehe. Just thought it would be fun to write a blog that starts with a taunt. Haha.

Janette Toral is an esteemed IT writer, speaker, advocate and “mentor.” Ever since I joined Digitalfilipino, my life in the IT profession has never been the same. Exaggerated ba? Of course not! She has actually taught me so many things, introduced me to the right people and have encouraged me to step out of the comfort zone in working in this industry. Therefore, all I have is praises for her. Her publication on the Philippine Internet Review: Ten Years of the Internet (1994-2004) is also now a collector’s item. You might want to check it out at Digitalfilipino.com.

Now, going back to the topic on her latest E-book. It’s got about 8 lessons, all very important, starting from introduction to blogs to setting up blog networks. The world of blog is fascinating, just tonight, I got a message telling me that through my blog, “I made her day.” Naks, parang PLDT, touching lives. But I’m happy that this is my blog’s effect on other people and it makes all the time spent clickity-clicking on my keyboard all worthwhile. So, whether you are planning to be a professional blogger or would just like to learn more about this new craze, make sure you get a copy of this e-book.

Step aside super Ingo, give way to super goma

2007-03-20T23:34:00.001+08:00

The setting for our story takes place at the Mapawa nature park

A group of happy campers found the perfect spot to pitch their tents and have fun

It was a full moon that night

And the so called spirits were disturbed by all the racket being made, and so they went out of their hiding places….

To haunt the campers (see the two long haired, white faced ladies in the picture??!! gasp!)

The men were too scared to get out of their tents … afraid of the haunting ladies …ISKIR!
And thus, witch doctor Inang Emiat was called to perform the ritual of cleansing the grounds….
However just as the sun rose, the "nunos sa punso" came out to spoil our campers fun…

But amidst our frightened campers, a hero emerged …

Super Goma!!!
Using the broken Nimbus 2000 he bought from harry potter at ebay …

he fought the transformed-into-an-ogre-dwarf … at first he was almost squashed to death (note, no photo editing here, the guys used optical illusion in taking the picture)

Remembering he still had the Nimbus 2000 he used it to hit and defeat the menacing ogre

And the day was saved. THE END

I know, i know ...corny ... but hey, just thought of showing how much fun we had during our outing. ;-)

Techies? Going Camping?

2007-03-18T02:33:00.001+08:00

Time has passed and no blog from Honey. What does that mean? It means that Honey is too busy and even in the insomniac moments of her life, she has to work or she would end up panting, catching up with things she has to finish for another week. Okay, enough of referring myself in the third person. It’s beginning to sound scary and schizophrenic. This is now Honey, the first and conscious person speaking. LOL.

So much has passed the last few weeks. I have a blog/fairy tale (don’t worry Ba…not you) coming up, inspired by our recent company overnight camping trip with my wonderful and dedicated team. I got a chance to bond with them and actually hear their stories and voices (yes, one of them brought a guitar along so they were singing the night away). Of course, what better topic is there to talk about while around a bonfire but ghost stories, just so we can have a reason to squeal and scream when we hear something creeping behind us and only to find out that someone from the other camp came close to our area to pee by the bushes (okay, exaggerating here).

One thing I can comment about that little adventure is that, my ever prepared team of analysts, designers and developers(when it comes to work) must have thought that tents and drinking water can be downloaded from a website once we get there coz they neglected to bring these items to our camping site. Good thing, Mike brought his tent and I brought one also so we were able to share it with the rest . Best of all, the manager of the resort, Iggy, visited our area and asked if we needed anything, so we told him that we needed to rent a couple of tents coz if we don’t have at least two more, we might end up having some of the guys sleeping under the stars and that. He brought a couple of tents to our area and helped us pitch the tents. He was kind enough to deliver a five gallon water bottle to our site as well. Yeah, we were supposed to rough it out, no cellphones, no computers and all that, but I absolutely had no intentions of going to the stream and drink water there. What?! No chlorine?!! What about my sensitive chlorine-dependent stomach??

We of course, slept very late (dawn) and I was awoken by the sound of nature (what sound? For those who were there, you know what I mean). While waiting for breakfast to be cooked by some of the ladies, some of us found it an opportune time to do a short trek and get a little exercise (hmpf) and some went to the swimming hole to wade in the water. We didn’t have enough time to do the river trek nor go horse back riding (lucky horses) as I had to rush back to the city to quickly prepare for my defense panelist job at a local university to check out the students thesis.

I had fun in that camping. It proved a few things for me:

1) 1. Sleeping bags are actually “okay” to sleep in.

2) 2. The guys can certainly whip up a good bar-b-cue and the girls can definitely cook a sumptuous breakfast.

3) 3. I have finally learned how to use the other features in my Swiss knife

4) 4. I can actually survive a night without cellphone or wifi signal.

Ahhh, another very long week has passed. Hope all is well with all of you. Hasta Luego!

Uno...dos...tres....FUEGO!!!

2007-02-15T00:46:00.000+08:00

There are a lot of IT companies opening these days as many are joining the bandwagon because of the many opportunities that the internet and technology has opened up. By IT companies, I mean all the companies that provide services such as back office operations, web development, software development, transcription, voice services, etc. At this point in time, we do need to inform other businesses about our services and the kind of jobs we are opening for the job seekers. We do seldom see or hear advertisements about IT companies, maybe because those that have to conceptualize these ads should also have in depth knowledge about the products and services. I’m thinking more of agencies that can provide specific Public relations for IT companies since, they know the right terminologies and they can easily understand the needs and objectives of your IT company as Public relations for IT companies is their core competency.

I’m discussing this because our company recently participated in job fair in a local university and there were other businesses there who participated in the event who needed some explanation about web development, software development, etc. Anyhoo, I guess this is the very reason why we strongly support the IT advocacy programs being led by the local government and chamber of commerce.

Since I mentioned I was in a job fair today, I now have the perfect excuse why I did not go out for a Valentine’s date or why I did not go to Luneta for Jose Rizal’s execution reenactment (uno…dos….tres….FUEGO!....sabay turning around to face the firing squad as an act of courage and love of country) as I was too tired. Hehe… nah, I had the most wonderful time with my whole family as we had dinner at my sister’s place. Hope you guys had a wonderful Valentine’s day!

Update - Desperas ng Valentines

2007-02-14T00:14:00.000+08:00

Dear Lord, please make me thin. But if you won’t make me thin, could you at least make my friends fat? Hehehe…answered prayer yan! Hahaha… JK (well, half truth). Anyway, unfortunately, I won’t make it to Eservices because of some work to finish. Maybe next year. I’ll still be going to Manila within the year though, for a bet I lost…but then again, if the one I made the wager with failed to comply, then we’re even! *wink wink*
The school year is about to end and there has been a lot of applications for our OJT (On the Job Training) program in our company. I guess, a lot of students are interested in training with us because

a) They will learn from us
b) They will be working in IT related tasks
c) They will not be tasked to buy banana-cue
d) They will not be tasked to photocopy files
e) They will not be tasked to make coffee for the managers and superiors.

Back in college, when we got “hired” by our respective companies, we all huddled up and started telling each other where we will be heading. I was lucky enough to work for a holding company in Cebu. Puns were of course made for those who worked for the following:

a) Bank – Mag count ng lastiko
b) Water District – Mag pump ng tubig (For those who did not have enough water supply mid march of 2000, I can give you their names…lol)
c) Electric Company – Live tester ng voltage(using fingers only)….*bzzzzz* “Ito, 110” *bzzzzz* “ito, 220”
d) Hospitals – perpetual blood donor

Sigh, good ole days. Anyway, gotta stop here… back to work!!

The Life of Having A Sibling Taking Up Medicine

2007-02-08T19:36:00.000+08:00

Leigh, my younger sister and bestest (rugrats term) friend in the world is now in her fourth year in Medicine. She's come a long way. Among the four siblings, she is the only one who did not take up a commerce related course because she was determined to fulfill her lifelong dream of becoming a doctor.

This year, she's a senior clerk at that Doctor Jose P. Rizal School of Medicine and she spends most of her time doing her rotations at the Provincial Hospital and with this, her tales from the Crypt starts.

She comes home talking about a recent vehicular accident wherein they had to perform an emergency operation (with graphic description, mind you), or would tell us about assisting in the OB Labor room.......all these tales are told.....while eating our dinner. Thanks a lot Leigh.

She would sometimes call us at dawn, asking us to pick her up at the hospital or would call to ask us to deliver food to her as she once said "Te, I feel like I joined the ramadan ritual as well coz it's already sundown and I have not eaten anything yet." Ever since then, we made sure we send food to her ...sometimes, three of us would deliver food to her at the same time (so that's why she has not lost weight!).

But it's such a good feeling that through her, we are able to help others as well. She has somehow fulfilled one of her ambitions of being a beacon of light for others and I pray that this continues for all her life as a doctor.

Keep up the good work Leigh!

PS...if you want to see her profile, go to http://www.friendster.com/leigh137 tamang tama, she's single ...... valentines na....hahaha....

Valentine's Day

2007-02-06T22:56:00.000+08:00

Cupid must be blind, either that or his arrows are too blunt because of the Financial crisis that he can’t even afford to have the arrows sharpened by the nipper sharpening guy walking on the streets shouting “baaaa-iiiid” (What’s the Tagalog term for “sharpen”?). Anyway, I don’t think there will ever be a Valentine’s day for me as for sure, I will be packing my bags for Eservices in Manila that day and for sure, I will be too busy to even notice the pile of long stemmed roses in my office that are being delivered every 30 minutes (yeah right, wishful thinking).
I used to joke about Valentine’s day before as how every year, I don’t get a single rose or not even a card and just like the US Civil war reenactments, I can very well act out being on the field, all tied and you would hear someone shouting “Open fire!”. Until, I dunno, somebody must have heard me say that (or shall I say, got tired of me saying that) that, right in the middle of class, on Valentine’s day, a “Delivery guy” knocked on the door and informed the instructor he had a bunch of roses with him that was to be delivered to me. I was absolutely embarrassed ( I’m not too keen on every body looking at me and saying “ssssssssssss”). As a kid, I always enjoyed Valentine’s day as it meant that my older sister’s suitors would be sending boxes of chocolates. Of course, my ate would hand the chocolate to me and my little sister (it was only when we were older that our ate told us that she had the fear that maybe the chocolates were laced with “gayuma” and so she did not eat it ….bad!).
I guess, those are my little memories of Valentine’s day as I always think of spreading the love not only on occasions such as these but everyday (yeah right, sour-graping blues). This being the month of love however, I thought it would be nice to write down whatever I can remember about this fateful day (fateful man talaga). How about you? Why don’t you Share your Valentine Story? I think what’s nice about these occasions though is that we can get to recall fond memories and talk about it, just like what I did. :D Enjoy the upcoming occasion as I will enjoy counting the number of socks I have packed and wonder if I have packed my toothbrush in my kit. Lol!

Quarter Life Crisis

2007-02-05T16:51:00.001+08:00

More comments from my "increments of five years" blog. Whew ... I thought I opened a new Pandora's box, but actually, there is a good explanation to it. Read on.....

Zoia told me that her increments of having to go through life's major decisions happens not every five years, but it happens every time she wakes up in the morning! hahaha... and here's a comment from Baba. Yes Ba, I will definitely tell you what my big bang is when I reach 30. Sorry that I gave you something to seriously think about, but it's good right? Hehe...The last conversation we had about this was when we were discussing that we've been friends with Abba for a year now and we realized that time really flies so fast. Honestly, during that time, I had this feeling of "urgency" to think of my next step too! hahaha. So, when I turn 30, I'll let you know or I might again be too busy to even realize that I am already 30! There is actually a term for this dear, it’s called "Quarter life crisis." If people have mid-life crisis...we have this. For those interested, you can read about it in my favorite resource place, wikipedia. Just go to this link http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quarter-life_crisis

Here are the indicators/characteristics in determining that you are undergoing quarter-life-crisis. All of you, use this as a check list. Hey people, at least, this is a scientific or a good psychological approach of understanding the phases we a going through in life … ….Hahahahaha……

* feeling "not good enough" because one can't find a job that is at his/her academic/intellectual level (I know of someone like this)

* frustration with relationships, the working world, and finding a suitable job or career (yup, I also know someone undergoing this)

* confusion of identity (wahahahahaha! This too!)

* insecurity regarding the near future (hmmm…yeah, this one, close encounter with one)

* insecurity regarding present accomplishments (hmmmm…you know who you are)

* re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships (yup…this too)

* disappointment with one's job (HA! As in!)

* nostalgia for university or college life (shoot….i just went through this)

* tendency to hold stronger opinions (yeah, I’m starting to think like this….uh-oh)

* boredom with social interactions (NOT!)

* financially-rooted stress (wehehehehheh…..if that’s the case the whole world is having quarter life crisis)

* loneliness (hmmmmm……… yeah…. I know of some)

* desire to have children (wahahahahahaha! Yeah, to the point that artificial insemination is already being considered)

Here's Baba's comment:

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This is supposed to be my long overdue commentary on your blog. Thing is, it’s been more than a few weeks since I was supposed to have posted this and so I’m not sure if I can get all my thoughts together the way I would originally have wanted to. Hahahaha, the consequences of procrastination. Oh my God, don’t get me started. But you actually already have, with your “increments of five years, major decisions, life changes and all blog”. Darn it. That certainly shook me up. A week or so ago I remember telling you I was too mired in angst and dismay at how little I seem to have to show for anything. I’m still mired in angst and dismay thank you very much!

Noemi has a point, perhaps it is because your life has been moving along as it should, at a pace and by increments that you are innately, subconsciously and consciously satisfied with—that you are not really worried. Unless you are hopelessly dense and not even remotely attuned to yourself, which I sincerely doubt. So from an outsider’s point of view, you seem to be doing very well. But then again, let me know what happens when you hit 30!

Seriously though, I would have been hard pressed to come up with an evaluation had I been on the receiving end of that question. That implies that I’ve never really thought about it--- and that is probably pretty much true. Which is scary considering that I am older than you.

So in answer to the question you posed--- should you worry that you’re not the least bit preoccupied about it? Probably not. But maybe I should be. Hahahaha.

Some people have life plans. And some people don’t. And I say whatever works for you. I used to think I had a life plan. Partly perhaps because that’s how we were brought up. I think our parents belonged to a generation that believed in planning, that the only way to do things was to know then decide where you were going then to go for it. And so when I was in high school, I figured I had my life pretty much mapped out. Or perhaps everyone in high school thinks that. I was going to college, I was going to end up in Medicine and I was going to be a doctor. Beyond that I hadn’t really thought much about --at the time, becoming a doctor was more than plan enough for a 16 year old. And then, when I was in 4th year medical school, we had a Psychiatry class wherein we were asked about where and how we pictured ourselves in 5 years, then 10 years then 20. I drew a complete blank. I vaguely remember giving the requisite answers, picking a specialty out of thin air, simply because I figured that was surely the logical thing to do, and mumbling something about settling down and having a family, bull like that. But in truth, I wasn’t really sure and of course, when everyone else around you seems so sure of where they’re going (I had classmates who were so specific that they had their future home addresses picked out!)—it’s not easy to admit that, much less be okay with it.

So I used to think I had a life plan. But then at some point I think I felt like ditching that and instead decided to just see where life takes me or where I can go, what I can do… That may in fact, have been THE most critical life decision I’ve made in the last 5 or so years; in fact, THE impetus for all my succeeding, recent major decisions because come to think of it, I’ve made at least 5 major life decisions in the past 3 or 4 years. That decision snowballed into my deciding to walk away from Medicine for good, leave IHG and my work there, which I loved, come home to Cagayan, ---among other things. Ok, so on the subject of increments, I, true to form, apparently make critical decisions in rapid fire succession (obscure reference to a particularly nasty rumor intended. Hah.). And during these bursts of decision-making, my life decisions are made on the average in 6-8 month increments. How’s that for pacing? I can never do things by halves, it seems. Makes me wonder if I have in effect left people reeling in the wake of those Jdecisions. My parents included. Or especially.

So now the plan is, NOT to have a plan….And perhaps the next most critical thing to do is decide to be completely okay with that, even if some people aren’t, exactly, and others just plain question my sanity. Mind you, I’m still not sure that I’m completely okay with it, I have my moments of panic (aka angst and dismay) but I suppose that’s okay too.

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Thanks for the comment Ba! To close this blog, I will leave you with a quote mentioned in wikipedia.

“In the novel, Twenty Something by Iain Hollingshead, Flatmate Fred says that a quarter-life crisis is twice as bad as a midlife crisis: "It's twenty years premature. No one gives you any sympathy and you're too young and insignificant to buy a sports car and run off with your secretary."”

I Think I Created Quite a Stir

2007-02-05T16:49:00.000+08:00

Okay.... so, remember my previous blog? The one titled "Life's Critical Decisions Come in Increments of Five Years?" I got quite a few comments from it ...some long emails (which I'd like to respond to soon, please be patient), some...how do I say this....some comments expressing that a new fear was created in them....hehehe... and I think I have more comments coming in as more people are texting, emailing me or talking to me about it.... so, I'm posting some here now.....

COMMENT NUMBER 1 - From Laura, New York
Hey There-very interesting, and sort of true. I feel like my life comes in 3-4 year increments; maybe I just have a shorter attention span! I think if you aren't stressed about it, then you are either a. on the exact right path, happy and mostly satisfied with yourself and your life, b. totally not in tune with anything in life, floating by, still, though, unconcerned and probably happy or c. normal. I think I'm a, with the exception of the fact that socially I feel a little lonely.

COMMENT NUMBER 2 - From Isolde, South Africa

I enjoyed your blog - thanks for sharing!

I think that your view probably matches many of my friends but I think that I've been in the fortunate / unfortunate position that I've had to make major decisions in smaller increments!

My major decisions have been occuring in 2 year increments since I was 16 :-) WOW, and I'm still alive :-)

From my perspective, the key is how we deal with making those decisions and the motivation we submit to in those times... I've often made major life decisions compromising myself and taking others into account first. My first major decision that I made for me, and me alone, propelled me into the most exciting time of my life and the ripple effect hasn't stopped since then. We need to make decisions for ourselves................ selfish as it may seem.

As for just happening along and not being fussed about making those decisions...... whatever works for you! You are beautiful for being you. Honey - one of the reasons that Argentina stands out for me, is you. And just by the way - if you want to run your own business like a queen bee, then go for gold! Success is relative. Success, to me, is a very personal thing. Success is that feeling when you think about your own life and you smile, no matter what you have or haven't done. Success means wearing a Gucci suit for some and not having to wear a suit at all for others! Richard Branson is a success in manys' eyes because he's an excellent entrepeneur... my sister is successful in my eyes because she's a fantastic mother.

I have the same view of heaven. Everyone has a personal heaven. My heaven would be filled with all types of dancing music, it'd be made of wet paint so that I could change it with the wave of my hand. People would fly using their mind, there'd be ferris wheels and dancers and lots of pink. Beautiful high heel shoes wouldn't hurt your feet and handbags would be like magicians' hats. They'd be feather light but if you put your hand inside, you'd pull out whatever you wished for. You'd read entire books by looking at the cover and cats would lounge around on giant fluffy cushions. (They wouldn't shed hair either!).... what's your version of heaven? One day... where's your perfect place to live until the end of time?

There's nothing wrong with having your life planned out to the last detail but some of the best moments are the impulsive ones ... and some of the most exciting prospects are the ones that popped up while you were doing something else. Thinking about the next steps should not stop us from doing the things that will make us smile a deep smile one day. In the same token, living your life aimlessly seems silly to me. I don't know what life's purpose is but I'm sure that its not about being idle!

You're too right about maturity - its an experience thing. I've met some very immature 50 year olds!

I hope you well Honey. Sending lots of love and hugs!
Xxx

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Now..... Isolde asked me what my version of heaven is.... that's actually a good topic to write about, probably in my "happier and better mood" days. In the meantime, keep those comments and emails coming!

Life’s Critical Decisions Come In Increments of Five Years

2007-02-01T21:35:00.000+08:00

Noemi and I had a business meeting last night, building the concept for a client’s website. As always, business meetings with this lady would always divert to pleasant conversation. She said that according to personal experience and that of the people close to her, “life’s critical decisions happen in increments of five years.” Such as the time when she reached 25, she started evaluating her career path and made the decision of quitting her job and setting up her own business. This has occurred to several people she knows and I realized then, that indeed, it is a usual phenomenon among my colleagues as well. Five years can indeed be considered as a milestone in life, half a decade…hmmm…..not bad.

She asked me to “review” where I was at 15, 20 and 25 years old. At 15, I had to make the decision if I was really to leave the country and spend one year away (perhaps, most of us, at the age of 15 would start thinking about what course to take up in college). That was a critical decision for me because a lot of things can happen in a year……and I mean, a LOT.

So here’s my evaluation. At age 20, I never bothered to think about it, didn’t care actually. At 25, all the more I was too preoccupied with other things that it never occurred to me that I was already a quarter of a century old and now, that I’m about to turn 29 I still don’t feel the least worried about it. I guess, I’m the kind of person who would live at the moment, the kind that don’t get easily swayed by outside factors when it comes to major life decisions (yeah right, for those who really know me, email me and tell me what you think about this statement haha). Seriously though, I want to make decisions based on careful thought and understanding, not out of pure emotions or pressure from other people (okay okay …. Email me and give me a comment about this too). It dawned on me, that indeed, some of the people I know, all within the same “age range” are actually preoccupied about their next step in life. That, perhaps, at this time they should be married or should have made the decision on what to do for the rest of their life (such as joining the congregation of the blessed sacrament sisters, career move, finalize their sexual preference, joining the vampire society, be in touch with their intrinsic self and start going back to nature and eat only organic stuff, turn into a frutarian, become an hermit (or Kermit, up to you), get a divorce, start the SSS or Social Spinsters Society, drop everything and get into the music industry, Joining the happy hookers club (Hey! I’m referring to those who like to knit and crochet), Join the circus and become a human canon ball, travel and come home only to die or whatever).

My question is this, should I worry that I’m not at least preoccupied about it? Or should I join in the bandwagon and start contemplating as to what my next step is? Am I not human to actually feel that tension or strain? Has emotions and human needs totally slipped out of my mind and heart? Noemi said it’s probably because she thinks I’ve been doing the right things and made the right decisions so far. I don’t know, perhaps, such is the case. We’ll see. I’ll let you know what my “big bang” is when I reach 30. But until then, I’ll continue to live life.

Oh and about the issue of age. I finally had a taste of my own medicine when a new friend started teasing me about it. Ouch. She then said not to worry as “With age comes maturity.” I’d like to say, I beg to differ, maturity really comes from life’s experiences. TTFN

What’s in a Name?

2007-01-28T16:02:00.000+08:00

I’m already 20ish (Point of denial), and still family and friends call me “Honey.” A lot of people ask me why I’m called as such. I would laugh and tell them “It’s because I’m sweet.” (and I do see some people spurt out the soda they’re drinking every time I give them that reason….and it is fun to wait for them to start drinking something before I say that). I did ask my mom why they gave me such a nickname and she told me, originally, my nick was supposed to be spelled as “Hanie” taken from my real name “StepHANIE.” But, people started writing and pronouncing my name as “Honey,” ergo, the current spelling and pronunciation.

So, how does it feel to be called “Honey” all the time? Hmm…good question, I should also ask the women with nicknames such as Darling, Langga, Sugar, Sweet and Love, right? I don’t blame my parents for it, in fact, I’m still thankful that they did not give me a name having the combination of both their names such as “Salvalinda” (Salvador + Rosalinda) or “Doling” (Doring and Linda) …. Although it would sound awkward, but ..hehe… those two names will still be better than having parents with names Lorna and Bebot (Lobot) or that of Samuel and Angging (Saging)…. Or have a mixed-breed puppy of a Bulldog and a Shitzu … oh, sorry, I’m getting carried away here.

Anyway, at this age, it does feel kind of weird to be called “Honey,” especially by the guys (I should email Honey De Leon of PCSO…I want to hear her sentiments…hehehe). Hey, I’ve had guy friends who were brutally beaten up by their girlfriends for texting me using my nickname or for having my nickname in their phonebooks. For several times also, people thought I was already married or was in a relationship because my guy friends would call me Honey too. (Gasp! Now I know why I still have not found the love of my life!!!!! Cruel world! I think I SHOULD start blaming my parents for giving me this nickname!!)

I’m still using my nickname though. A lot of the people in the IT industry know me now as Honey Caragos of Syntactics and I can’t stand it when my good friends call me “Stephanie,” coz it begins to sound too ….impersonal and distant.. hehe… I’m happy with my name. I’m contented with it and yeah … people do say I’m sweet! And that being the case, I mean, you know, me being sweet all my life, you can always return the favor and Send a Valentine's Day gift to me and cheer me up this coming fateful firing range day......Lol… better yet, help me not lose my bet with Aileen!!

Adios!!

When I was a Kid, I wanted to be ……

2007-01-28T15:44:00.000+08:00

When I was a wee kid (wee … coz I only bloated at age 12 ... probably from some kind of allergic reaction … yeah right…haha), I wanted to be a doctor. I really wanted to be like my pediatrician since I thought… “This is so cool, all you have to do is listen to heartbeats, poke kids with a needle and hey! I’m going to have a refrigerator full of lollipops!” Until I found out you would have to be dealing with “booboos” … “blood” blech .. the wretched idea of looking at it made me back out of that “ambition”

I then I wanted to become a priest … haha! Yeah yeah… As a child, weren’t you intrigued by the idea that you would be handing out that thing that looked like domino (round) cookies? Oh man… I would get a pack of “dominoes” from our sari-sari store and I’d ask my sister and my younger cousin to take turns in forming a line and opening their mouths to receive the “host” until we consume the whole pack. Of course, later on I understood that primarily you had to be a guy to become a priest and that that there were so much meaning to the host rather than just a cookie (believe it or not, I only fully understood the meaning of the Holy Eucharist just a few years ago….. this topic is for another lengthy blog in the future).

So moving on…. “Since I can’t be a priest … can I be a nun then?” Then I saw the Carmelite nuns singing behind what seemed to be prison bars… no … I can’t be one (but seriously, now that I think of it … at my age now… I can be …. Hmmmm…… NAAAAH. I always tell my Tita Madz (madz for madre) every time she asks me to join her congregation, “I think the best way I can give my full service is through my current profession, besides, if I join the convent, do you think there would be enough sane nuns after my training?”

I wanted to be a scientist … rather .. I wanted to be like “Wile E Cayote…genius”, mixing chemicals and other liquid substances (cartoon age) and get that “poof” effect every time. Of course, I would use my mom and dad’s perfume from their “comoda” or “tocador” and mix it with my Johnsons Baby Cologne. I therefore conclude, the formula “Gucci + Johnsons Baby Cologne” does not give you that “poof” effect but it will give you that “whapak …spank in the hiney” effect by dear old mumsy. So, on to the next dream please ….

In relation to my previous “scientist” ambition of mixing things up, I also wanted to become a Cook/Chef …. Need I say more about my current condition?

My dad then got me a bike … and so I wanted to be a … “Free styling stunt gal” (yes, I haven’t heard of the term of “extreme sports” then but that’s what I felt like doing that time) Of course, after getting way to many scratches, after flying off from the bike way too many times and after being chased by bad ‘ole dogs in the neighborhood, I finally decided to quit it and turn to my next ambition…. (I can never survive being on just two wheels… for those who knew me circa end of 2005 …. Remember my accident? Yeah, the one that left me with a big scar on my knee? My so called asset? Char… hahaha)

Being a cop … of course, I came after a boy sibling, so you can just imagine the influence… anyway, I wanted to chase robbers and slap on the hand cuffs on them ….. (hmmm… slapping on hand cuffs isn’t such a bad idea at this age isn’t it? Hahahaha!)

By high school my mom asked me to take up summer art workshops and was I ever thankful that she did. I later on realized I liked the feeling of “creating” something and so, for the next five summer vacations, I took up painting and art lessons. I wanted to paint. I wanted to take up fine arts for college. I had my heart set on it, not thinking my mom wanted it to be only a hobby for me but not my “be all and end all”. Then my mom put some sense into my head with just one line. She said “Will it pay the rent?” Then I understood, I was enjoying it because I was painting on my spare time, on vacation. But if it would mean that I would have to depend on it for my living, it then becomes a stressful task. I would have to push myself to come up with the next masterpiece or push myself to sell my work. It won’t be fun, it won’t be the same feeling. So yes, I studied something else in college. (But intriguing … if Pygmalion’s Galatea came to life … can I make my own Statue of David and plead to give it life too? Pretty please?)

I always enjoyed the feeling that my dad was the boss in the bank and that he had a nice car, good pay and got to meet cool people… and so I wanted to be a “manager” … I took up business management …. But eventually, it became too boring for me, something was amiss … so I shifted to Accountancy (Yeah, good idea, at least when I die I would have the title “CPA” after my name and not just “R.I.P.”). Accountancy for a couple of years wasn’t at all that bad. I learned a lot, I enjoyed balancing the figures (the only figure I couldn’t balance was my own figure) but then I was attracted to this new course, “Information Management.” It sounded … hmmm …. “Intellectually stimulating.” I’ve always enjoyed computers way back in high school (I was the “word star and lotus 123 wiz” then … remember? “CD dot … CD dot dot.” haha). So, I enjoyed the course, I then realized ….. I wanted to become a “SYSTEMS ANALYST…list list list… *echo*”

So, here I am now … a systems analyst (information management + accounting) who paints on her spare time (artist), who wants to take care of her parents (doctor), who would want to experiment and mix things (cook and scientist), who loves computers and gadgets (programmer), who loves to run a team of motivated individuals (manager), who loves God so much (Priest/Nun) who enjoys every bit of spice and variety that life can bring (biker… hahaha) and as for the hand cuffs………….. *wink wink*

Moving to a New and Bigger Office

2007-01-27T18:20:00.000+08:00

Finally, we were able to move to our new office space. We went through all the stress and burden of finding a new office space, negotiating for space, looking for the right contractor, renovation to actual moving of furniture.

Last November, we started the grueling task of looking for the best location for our new office as we had to vacate our office space in Limketkai Center. We started looking for spaces within the Divisoria Area (FYI, Divisoria here in Cagayan de Oro is our business district). A good friend recommended a building along Velez-Cruz Taal streets. Instantly, I loved the place, but I realized that it needed much renovation. As a sound businessperson of course, I had to check out the other options, which were many but location was crucial. Another option was the 6^th floor of a building, also along Velez St. The space was okay, the size was just enough and the rent was also okay, the walls were already painted and all we had to do was apply for a meter with CEPALCO. But not everybody knew the building. What I did was inform a lot of people about my options and their first reaction about the second space was “where is that?” Taking note of such reaction, we decided on the first choice and signed the lease contract with the building owner around December.

On to the next phase. We asked several contractors to give us a quote for total labor and materials needed for the renovation. I was appalled by all the prices that were submitted to us! Anyway, we settled for the least labor cost and did some supervision ourselves (to the extent that my bout with my asthma attack was unceasing, stress+dust+paint fumes). For materials, we were blessed that I have a kumpare that helped us in securing the materials (with good payment terms). Whew, that was a load off my back.

The carpenters worked fast enough so we can move to our office space with enough time to settle in for our opening on February. Just in time, on January 18, we started moving in. I was laughing, while helping in carrying all the tables, chairs and computers, imagining how it would have been if we chose our 6^th floor option. Imagine? Carrying all that stuff for 6 flights of stairs? My gulay! I was already panting when our space was just on the second floor, what more if we were on the 6^th floor? I’m sure I would have been stepping on my tongue out of exhaustion!

Then we had the problem with our air-conditioner’s dripping as it constantly dripped on to the front part of the building. This was not a good thing as we had to maintain the clean façade. We tried using long hoses but the water kept getting stuck (as the hose kept folding) and overflowed again until a “super-mario” moment hit me…. Yes, pipes! (super Mario music playing in my head …tenenenen …tenenenen…) So, we purchased water pipes and with the help of Mike T., we were able to run the pipe on the ledge of the building and the water flowed smoothly in the pipes dripping only at the side of the building! See……and they said we don’t learn anything from computer games.

Anyway, now we’ve settled in. We now have nice walls and a conference room (hehe). Phone lines are in place and internet is running smoothly. Thanks for the great team-work guys and thanks to all those who helped!

My Christmas Gift For The Guys ....

2006-12-27T10:31:00.000+08:00

I was going around the net looking for interesting search engines and found this one www.msdewey.com. For the guys, it's goodbye butler! (askjeeves.com) and hellooooo Ms. Dewey! I read in the article (http://news.com.com) that Ms. Dewey represents as the new age digital librarian (Dewey Decimal). Interesting.

Everytime you reload or open the site, she has some wisecrack to say or little schemes. If you open the window too long, Ms. Dewey would make some snide remarks or actions to tell you that it's taking you a long time to type in something.

Try it out .... you are going to need good bandwidth though coz it's going to take some time to load and it's not really the kind of search engine you would want to use if you are in a rush (like good old dependable google). They should also make a website for the ladies called Mr. Jackman (Hugh Jackman that is ... what were you thinking of!?), I will certainly be glued to the web searching for every topic i can think of and be the web junkie I used to be again!

DigitalFilipino IT Amazing Race, Women’s Series

2006-11-25T15:26:00.000+08:00

Welcome to the DigitalFilipino IT Amazing Race, women’s series. For this race, each contestant must be able to give a talk about their experiences in the IT industry and must be able to travel to 4 different cities in the Philippines in four days and must cover the three major islands: Luzon, Vizayas and Mindanao. The team members are:

Abby O. Lim – AKA Ecommerce Site Starter - Owner of www.virramall.com and Alfox Computer Center.

Cannie Mae Encarnacion – AKA Pinoy Payment Gateway hope and savior – www.yossn.com

Stephanie “Honey” Caragos – AKA, the Sweetest IT professional you can ever find (siempre) – www.syntacticsinc.com

Aileen Apolo – AKA, Diosa ng Philippine SEO– (Apolo with one “L” please) Philippines Country Consultant for www.Google.com

Jonas De Los Reyes – AKA, ang lider ng online bentahan (Ecommerce Manager) for www.yehey.com

Here’s my summary of the entire ITventure:

Women on the Web, Wireless and Outsourcing

Day 1:

Team members (Janette, Cannie, Abby, Aileen and Jonas) flew in from Manila to setup the Venue for the launching of the Forum. I picked up Cannie and Abby from the hotel and was so happy to see them personally (“live”) for the first time. We have constantly communicated through YM and have discussed for this roadshow. We took a sidetrip to Del Monte Bukidnon to show them around and then came back to Cagayan de Oro with enough time to prepare for our talks.

I would like to thank the Cagayan de Oro participants for supporting the forum. I am excited at the fact that there are a lot of SMEs who are interested in setting up their ecommerce sites and are interested in the prospect of accepting payments online. We had participants from the education, travel, Manufacturing, Wedding Suppliers and Hotel and Retail sectors. It’s really a good opportunity for these sectors to have an online payment solution as they have a lot of potential clients/customers from outside the Philippines who would like to make advance payments for their products and services. For example, at the advent that there are so many parents working outside the country, it’s a great option for schools to be able to receive payments online and give the parents a feeling of security that they have well provided for their children’s education, on time and without fuss.

Day 2:

3:15 AM We left Cagayan de Oro for Davao. We hired a van and had a long six hour road trip. Of course, we had to stop by Seagull Mountain Valley Resort for our “pit stop” --- breakfast in Mindanao’s version of Baguio, where the weather is always cold.

We checked in at Hotel Leticia with enough time to prepare for our session in the afternoon. Janette went on ahead to the venue to setup the place as the rest of us stayed in the hotel and made the most of the free wifi access we could get in the lobby and had to do some work/business. It’s really funny to see us with our notebooks open, trying to finish our business communications (and then some). After seeing everyone trying to find a wifi connection, I would like to conclude that there is a new addiction wherein the person is referred to as a “wifi junkie.”

Our venue, Ranchero Grill had the right space and food for the event. Thank you so much to Rodney Jao of Lane Systems for your preparations and accommodation. I’d also like to thank Mr. Chito Lucero, Rachel and Jason Banico of Hubport Interactive for our sumptuous Korean dinner! It was also great to see Oliver Robillo and be able to chit-chat with him again!

Day 3:

Last minute wifi access usage over breakfast and trying to avoid wifi withdrawal symptom. Hehe…. Then rush to the airport to catch the plane for Cebu. We got to Cebu just in time. Now, it’s really an amazing race challenge. With only one hour to travel from airport to Rajah Park Hotel (venue), Cannie and I were left at the airport to get the baggage that was checked in and then Janette and Abby left ahead to prepare the venue (I’m so sorry to the guy by the baggage conveyor who was waiting for his box of Pomelos, I didn’t know I got your pomelo box instead of Abby’s…hehe… anyway, you got your pomelos now…so all good). We all got there just in time. Thanks to Aileen Apollo, she took us to waterfront with her in her hotel pick-up vehicle and we were able to easily get a cab from there. Smart move Aileen, genius, absolutely genius.

Thanks to the Global Cebu group for assisting in the organization of the trip. The venue, the sound system and the food were all perfect! I had fun during the open forum as many did ask us questions and interacted with us.

Day 4:

2:30 AM. Team members woke up early to start preparing to catch the 6:00 AM Manila flight. All good. Got to the airport with enough time for breakfast and enjoy the sunrise at the Cebu airport. When we got to Manila, Janette had to rush for her Cyberfair event (It’s unbelievable how Janette manages to get to all her engagements and have so much energy after all the trips we’ve done!).

We had a good time during the afternoon event. It’s so nice to finally meet the faces behind all the site names I have read in digitalfilipino. I was really impressed with Reggie of regaloservice.com’s talk wherein she talked about how it is to setup an online store and how it is to be a career woman, a mother and a wife in this day and age. Her talk perfectly aligned with the entire forum’s theme.

The Manila networking after all the talks was truly fun as I talked with Chris of FQMC, Rona of www.trabilis.com.ph, Gwen of www.thegrapebunch.com, Reggie of regaloservice.com, Joan of www.mylittlebaker.com, Erick of www.load.com.ph, Charlie of www.weddinglibrary.com.ph, Venus of tw-travelsolutions.com and Tracy of www.yespayments.com. Thank you so much for the warm reception and for making the event successful.

Thank you also to Abby’s dad, Mr. Alfred Ongyanco for receiving us at the airport, for helping with the venue preparations and for spending time with us! Most importantly, thanks to Ms. Janette Toral for being an inspiration, for mentoring and guiding us all throughout the trip. Of course, all this would not have been possible if it were not for Cannie of www.yossn.com! Thanks so much Cannie! I’m so looking forward to the next W3O event next year! Let’s all keep in touch!